2007-01-01 05:04:52 · 34 answers · asked by goldeneyein 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is all what you make of it...it takes a lot of communication, unselfishness, and love! Some folks do well married and some don't. I like it!
Happy New Year!
2007-01-01 05:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the two person that are getting married. Sometimes it good and sometimes certain people are just not marriage material. That's why before each marriage i thing the couples need to go threw counseling. I think marriage is good if you are really ready
2007-01-01 05:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by cupcake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's bad. Most marriages fail that should answer the question. Would you buy a car if you knew it had a 50% chance of being broken and unrepairable?
Another example my father and moms is divorced. They where married for 4 years. Now my dad has gf, and they've been together for seven years. They're not married, but have lived together like married people would. There relationship is still going strong.
2007-01-01 05:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by justanotheruser 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is Good.
2007-01-01 05:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing like marriage. And until you experience it for yourself you will never understand. I do however, recommend taking your time to find a highly compatible partner before you do it. Make sure you discuss honestly your views and opinions as much as possible. No matter how much you love someone, if your opinion differs to the point of non acceptance of certain things, you will have serious problems. Eg: kids, money, politics,and of course LOVE is the most important thing!
2007-01-01 05:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a matter of opinion and everyone will have different answers to this question.
Look at it this way...you get married for a reason, whether it be a good reason or a bad reason. People get married for a lot of different reasons.....love, pregnancy, money, companionship.
I got married in June of 2006...yeah, I took the big plunge....but it was because I was in love and I felt that we were meant for each other. We already lived with each other, and getting married was just a way of commiting to each other. I would have never considered it if I didn't feel that we were right for each other or that we would be together forever.
If you want to get married you need to take a long look at your relationship and decide for yourself if this is what you want to do.
2007-01-01 05:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jaylee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is what you and your spouse make of it.
There is no definite good or bad. There are some awesome marriages out there and then there are some aw full ones.
It depends on what each party is willing to put into it and yes it takes hard work to have a good one.
2007-01-01 05:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by just_trump_my_ace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men usually get married because their mothers have allowed them to become dependent on a woman for basic survival needs, food, laundry, maid service, and they get married just to replace their mother's role in their life (but with benefits). Women get married so that they can have a source of genetic material and a support system to have children. They play upon the man's need for a mother replacement and the hormones that drive them to want to mate. They usually have to accomplish this before a man figures out how to use a pan and mop, because men will play upon the need of women to find a mate to get them through the hormone phase of their development and if they figure out they can exist and be happy without a woman lashed to them, they will . Women retaliate against such men by shunning them and withdrawing their unmarried female friends as possible matches for them. The men are then condemned to being alone which forces them to become rich and use other inducements to attract suitable women for those needs they still have. Unmarried women get cats. Where is love in all this mix? It's there as a chemically triggered survival trait that can be gotten through if you are strong enough.
Once a woman gets past the breeding stage and has chucked her support system (while retaining half of all he has) can find that the independant male they shunned earlier in life can make the best companions later in life. They share the chores and will treat you as an equal. They are not needy and because of diversity in their love life, are most considerate lovers, provided you are lucky enough to find one that isn't dating your youngest daughter.
2007-01-03 04:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my marriage was great the first year after that he started doing drugs, so the past year has been bad.
i think marriage has its ups and downs. you just have to get through it and try to make it work. if you find the right person marriage is great
2007-01-01 05:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is like a car, it needs maintenance all the time, else it will get wrecked without you noticing that.
2007-01-01 05:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by Philip76LostLove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋