i'm tired of people judging me before they know me..
2007-01-01 05:01:52 · 27 answers · asked by seth w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't blame you. Its wrong, wrong, wrong. Why indeed would someone want to do that ?? Based on what ?? You or I are really none of their concern anyway. Maybe they like to gossip~~~I think thats it, they are trying to gain popularity by giving someone their opinion. NOW HEAR THIS !!!
Put it behind you,they have already gotten more of our time then they deserve. Have a Great 2007
2007-01-01 05:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That;s a tough one. I would guess that almost everyone does this to a certain degree. Don't you ever judge something or someone before you know them? People judge things because that's the first thing they see. We see with our eyes and somehow our brains are forced to make a decision about what we see. It's like a little kid seeing fire for the first time. He might think it looks neat and he makes the assumption that it could be fun. It is then, when his hand touches the flame, that he makes a better judgment based on his experience.
Even though you shouldn't change who you are, think of ways to make yourself more approachable so people won't be so quick to judge, and rather want to experience who you are.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 13:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by peterkolozvary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause people are not taking the time to get to know you. The way you dress effects other people. Especially, if you feel like they are judging you, just don't judge them. You should tell them in person that it hurts you that they judge you for no stupid reason.
2007-01-01 13:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people need to put others in little boxes...they'll judge you on apperance or your company, before they know anything else about you because it's easier than waiting to see if you are a kewl person or not.
Those people aren't a loss for you...they allow themselves to miss out...feel sorry for them...if they'd just be a little more open minded they'd find so many more kewl people in the world...
2007-01-01 13:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says anyone is judging you??? You might be paranoid !! I'm so tired of hearing this undefined buzzword "judging". What does that mean????
Everyone has an opinion, and just because I don't like something doesn't mean I'm judging it. But again, I don't know what context this buzzword is supposed to represent.
2007-01-01 13:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know i that it is very annoying I have been in your situation before, but you know what made me feel better, that I started judging other people without even knowing there names I know it seems wrong but it makes you feel better GOOD LUCK and a Happy New Year !!!
2007-01-01 13:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by Nuga 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People are always going to be like that no matter what you say or do it is human nature just some people take it further then others..... Just let them do what they want and you just be yourself and in time they will see that they may have made a mistake about who you are and change thier minds..... no need in worrying about someone who is to self centered to open thier minds to new people.....
2007-01-01 13:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it's alot easier to judge by looks rather than actually get to know the person
2007-01-01 13:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easier to judge then move on, than to take time to learn about someone... Life sucks... :D
2007-01-01 13:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate that too, I try to never do that to anyone, but still some people do it to me but I just think that they'll be sorry in the end
2007-01-01 13:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by stacie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋