What do you think about this? How do you feel about this?
A female who is 23 years old and already has 3 sexual partners.
2007-01-01 04:58:15 · 34 answers · asked by carol 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
what does it matter? It's just sex. I never understood this. It makes no sense to me. She may need to go out and experience the world some more. Why limit the number of partners you have, the only one you are cheating is yourself. How are you going to know what you like sexually if you never get a chance to experience it? I feel sorry for all the people who live the rest their lives not fulfilling their fantasies. We live in a society that encourages us to follow our dreams in almost everything we do except when it comes to sex.
2007-01-01 20:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by The Pig! 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
At 23, I don't find that to be a lot. well, it depends on her cultural background though. But I'm talking about typical American standards here. When you consider the fact that it's common to lose one's virginity while still in high school, maybe she's been sexually active for 7 years. Three guys in 7 years is NOT a lot. Hell, to some, 3 guys in ONE year is not a lot :o). so yeah, when you put things into perspective that way, she's probably not a hooch - especially if those three guys were serious relationships (as opposed to two being one night stands, for instance).
2007-01-01 14:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The numbers are staggering but now-a-days 3 would be considered a low number. Yes it is sad, or maybe she is just more sexually experienced than her partners and it takes 3 to satisfy her needs. Whatever the reason I hope protection is being used, because there are just too many people in that bed.
2007-01-04 21:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And?
I know a 21 year old who already has two children (the first one she had when she was 16). So a 23 year old woman who's only been with 3 guys is actually pretty common these days. In fact, she's probably teased by her girlfriends cause she's only been with 3 guys!
2007-01-01 05:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is if she is being honest. And, since yiu are worried about 3 I can understand if she minimized her numbers and if she is honest...give her credit..this is a hard subject for young women as they are made to feel bad. How many women have you been with. Igf this is really important to you...then talk to her. I persoanlly dont see anything wrong with 3 partners at 23
2007-01-01 06:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she was a guy she would be considered a virgin. 23 and 3 sexual partners is no big deal. Move on if you can't live with it.
2007-01-01 06:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Who are you to judge anybody. In this day and age where sex is glorified in every media imaginable it would be difficult if not impossible to be affected by the coercion. Girl are socialized by television, magazines and movies to believe that their only value revolves around the way they look and see their sexuality as a commodity to trade for love, acceptance etc. Don't judge this young woman because I am sure if this person was male it would be a different story.
2007-01-01 09:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry so much i believe the baby is your boyfriends if you had a period after you had sex with the other guy then theres 00000000000.0% chance the baby is his and 1000000.000% the baby is your boyfriends, first scans arnt very acurate i only had sex with my boyfriend and i was 11 weeks pregnant when i went for my first scan, acording to the last day of my period my due date was 12th april 2013 but at my scan as the snographer couldnt measure my baby properly as the baby was standing up!!!! She estimated my due date to be 14th april 2013!!! Dont listen to the online experts your midwife is right, she wont say something like that just to put your mind at rest this baby is 10000% your boyfriends theres not a 1% chance of being the other guys baby, best of luck and congrats :)
2016-05-23 03:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that not bad at all i know someone that is 21 and she has had more than 10 sexual partners. so think about that before you judge.
2007-01-05 04:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by cash3girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's only had three? Wow, she sounds like a nice girl.
You can't judge a woman by how many sexual partners she's had. Best you can do is make sure she gets STD tested and that she's a faithful girlfriend.
2007-01-01 06:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by ms dont panic 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋