I am a guy and like to dress female sometimes. You think I should be allowed out in public?

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Answer 1

Of course you can go out in public dressed as a female. I've done it quite a few times & enjoyed it. I'd just make sure you look your best & look like a female to avoid any problems.

Answer 2

I looked at your slide show and if I can be honest with you, I have to say that it wasn't pretty. But even ugly people are allowed out in public.

You ask, "should I be allowed out in public?" Well, nobody stops you from doing it. The question you need to ask yourself is how would you respond if you're recognized? Would you be able to gather your self esteem and dignity? What difference would it make to you if other people thought you had a gender problem?

Does you family and friends know you cross dress? If not, I suggest you start with them. If people who matter most give you their support, then what difference does it make what people who don't matter think about you?

Answer 3

Definetly you hold yourself well you need to relax a little before the camera and not worry what others think if you are shy then join a room on here called tvchix they have many get to gethers lots of fun and excellent way of making new friends you at least make a wonderful effort and take pride in who you are so now you need only find the right enviorment to become that little more confident it may sound difficult but its not have fun enjoy life but most of all enjoy being you

Answer 4

Of course. I mean, if we haven't started shooting those women who wear pajamas, bunny slippers, and those pink sponge curlers in their hair to Wal-Mart, why would we object to a man who is trying to look his best? Women wear suits and ties and cowboy boots and shave their heads and people don't object. Just be prepared to hear hurtful comments and have folks stare at you. Just go out there, dressed to the nines, loving who you are, and willing to allow others their own opinion as long as they allow you to be yourself. Most importantly: Smile.

I do suggest, however, that you use a lighter shade of blush and a lighter hand.

Answer 5

Can you give me a reason why you should not?
You should go ahead and be yourself. The only time people should be restricted from being themselves is if they are psychotic and dangerous to others.
So, what do you think? Feel comfortable to go out dressed in this manner? Then go ahead. The only caution I would urge is choose your environment a little carefully. It's one thing to have the principle of being who are you whenever you want, it's another to go somewhere where you could be hurt physically for it.

Answer 6

yes you should. i dont think anyone could tell that ur not a woman anyway. life it too short to allow others to control your happiness. just make sure you feel good about the way u look when u go out.

Answer 7

not only should you but you can, but be prepared for the fallout and repercussions.. i am a very passable cd and i go out all the time , seldom have any problems. However i do have occasional encounters that are less than desirable. good luck and enjoy

Answer 8

Absolutely. Wear what makes you comfortable and feel good about yourself.

Unfortunately there are closed minded people out there who will take offense. Since as far as I can tell this is based on no logic, there is no reasoning with them.

Which leaves you with having to learn to ignore them or avoid them. It is ridiculous that you need to deal with them at all, but so it goes.

Be careful and enjoy life.

Answer 9

I don't have a problem with it. There is no legitimate reason why you shouldn't. I've gone to NYC many times dressed en-femme and other places as well.

Answer 10

Those are good pictures! You look lovely, I think. Good choice of makeup as well. I can't wear blue or turquoise, looks weird on my olive skin. But you have the coloring for it. I'm more of a primary color type, with purple, red and green (bright, not pastel)

I wonder how you would look with straight hair, though.