If a girl goes up to a guy friend and traces his chest with her fingers, plays with his hair, lets him put his arms around her, and you liked her, would you think it meant she liked him??
Is it wrong to do this with your ex who still likes you even though you know you will never give him a second chance
Is it wrong to just flirt and have no attachment??
2007-01-01 04:13:24 · 15 answers · asked by Hott Gymnast 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Getting someones hopes up is not right. How would you feel if you were the one who was getting led on by an ex. If you aren't interested in your ex why are you wanting to flirt with him? Aren't there other guys out there for you to hit on. Let him be free and make sure he knows you just want to be friends.
2007-01-01 04:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is flirting. Think if your ex whom you still had feelings for stroked your hair, made you dinner, and held your hand while taking your puppy for a walk.
What would you think? It's easy to look for male companionship without attachment in the wrong ways (as in what you're describing above) because that's how females get males to notice them.
What you'e described though, is plain ol' obvious flirting and shouldn't be done to anyone you don't have more-than-friendly feelings for. That's leading someone on, and it's wrong.
Girls are smart and they understand for the most part how much power they hold over certain people (male or female), they know what they're doing- and they're doing themselves and everyone else around them a diservice by pretending they don't.
If you (or someone else that you're describing) wants to have a friendly relationship with their ex or any other male in their life, then take time to talk, play video games, and do unattached things like that. If you want to be unattached, then act unattached.
Oh and don't forget, Do to others what you would want them to do to you. You will reap a respectful, dignified image in the end. Who doesn't want that?
2007-01-01 12:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i probably would think you like him. i don;t think it's wrong to flirt without an attachment but if your ex still likes you it might be a little misleading
2007-01-01 12:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do it all the time (flirting with no attachment), but every once in a while it gives the guys the wrong idea.
2007-01-01 12:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by H A N N A H(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say it was flirting. Flrting big time actually. Do that in an office and its sexual harasment.
And no its more about saying 'Im available'.
Do it to an ex? Thats a touch cruel dont you think?
2007-01-01 12:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that thats wrong....thats just making the guy miserable.....you know they say how guys flirt with a lot of girls during the day? but right before they sleep they think of the one they really love.....and thats where the pain begins
2007-01-01 12:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course yes it is,
and it's wrong to do with ur ex as it proves that u lack a personality
2007-01-01 13:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she is deffinatly flirting with him... i dont think its right, if she never wants to give him a second chance, i think she is teasing him... she may be sending him mixed signals, and he might think that she likes him still, and she wants to date him again... making the whole situation bad.
2007-01-01 12:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by =] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married for ten years,but i can't help flirting with guys,especially my ex-es!I just want to feel that i'm still desirable,even sexy...Yeah,what you did is called flirting and if we don't do it when we're young,then when?...
2007-01-01 12:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the other hand, maybe she's just trying to lift the guys wallet and credit cards out his back pocket?
2007-01-01 12:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by waif 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋