I benn living with my very Bossy Motherinlaw and Wife for two years now. I been out of work and we lost our House so she Has takes us in. She and My wife are in Business and work full time. They leave Me at Home all day. Well she has me cleaning washing etc I cook for them as well. If I do not do as she want she yells at me and Her and My wife dont talk to me. Now they just sold my car as I have no say at all. I see they are molding Me into a submissive Maid for them. I kinda let this Happen But Now I think I am past the point of no return. Whats Next for Me?
2007-01-01 04:07:32 · 16 answers · asked by c t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a job and get a divorce.
2007-01-01 04:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Oh my! I'm a woman and even I feel sorry for you. What the heck did you do to find hell on earth? I cant say that I would divorce her right away. I would get a job though. Fast! Talk to your wife and see how she feels about it. I would spend all of my free time getting a job or two. Save enough money to rent an apartment even if you dont have furniture. If she moves with you and aids you she still wants the marriage to work. If she doesnt, shes married to her mother and that is exactly where I would leave her. I cant believe she would do that. I'd love to slap her and her mother for you
2007-01-01 04:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by flirt6angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did they sell your car? If it is in your name and you did not sign over the deed, they just committed a felony and you need to call the police for theft. If you signed over the deed, well, then bucko, you should just accept the consequences of not having a back bone.
As far as housework: you have lived there 2 years, rent free (no job, no money, so I am assuming you don't give her any rent....). YOU SHOULD BE DOING THE HOUSEWORK. If your wife is working and YOU DON'T HAVE A JOB, THEN YOU SHOULD BE DOING WHAT YOU CAN TO HELP OUT.
Ingrate.
2007-01-01 04:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by ssc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are you from? doing housework is no shame! but as i understand your wife is at work so you both could afford an appartement of your own.
discuss the situation with your wife, tell her how you feel, ask her to move out and take your own appartement. if she doesnt agree, get a divorce. and yes dont give up, you have to find your own job.
2007-01-01 04:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all baby you got to get a job. No woman has no respect for a man without a job. You got to have one. Find something, anything, until you find something better. I am telling you if you had a job, they would have more respect for you. When you get a job , try and get the hell up out of that house.
2007-01-01 04:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by lhpretty 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can always cut your balls off.
Go get a job. What do you do that you cannot find work after two years? Get real. Get off you @ss get out of the house, get a job and act like a man and they might treat you like one.
2007-01-01 04:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know what got you into this mess, and I know you know the way out of this mess. You said you have a wife, but you don't sound too much like a husband, you sound more like her younger brother. Where is the man that she married?
2007-01-01 04:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you find a job with-in walking distance? You need to find yourself again. Take her car.Marriage is 50/50. If they are both that bad,can you leave? Stay with some friends for awhile. Don't stay and take that. Good luck!!! It's a new year. Take action!!!!!!!
2007-01-01 04:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by *♥♫Hedy♫♥* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's only right that you give something back since you're just sitting at home doing squat. bills need to be paid. how were you paying for said car? get a job, it's not that hard. and btw they cant sell your car without your siggy on the papers,... unless the car was not in your name and therefore not your car.
2007-01-01 04:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job loser!!!! If you are staying with your motherinlaw then you should have to do all that and more....Your wife needs you to divorce her since she obviously can do better than you...
2007-01-01 04:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you`re not working then you should be doing all of those things,get a job and then the 3 of you can share the responsibilities
2007-01-01 04:11:22 · answer #11 · answered by lily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋