I like wearing high heels, but he wants me to stop wearing trainer shoes and flats at casual occassions. What do you think?
2007-01-01 03:52:34 · 28 answers · asked by marniemcc 4 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
This is normal, sounds like your husband has a slight shoe fetish, try wearing the heels to bed!!
SOMEONE who wears heels all the time has caught his eye!!
WEAR THE SHOES!! Just get used to it!! Stop making excuses!! Listen to me...many ladies here will say oh!! feet hurt etc...be your own woman...Hah!! if their man looks at another woman you better believe these "nay sayers" will change their hair, makeup, perfume etc...don't be fooled honey...DO IT .
Women wear heels, it's a fact! Just comprimise w/ low heels for casual occasions...they really don't care the "height" of the heels, they have no concept!!
2007-01-01 05:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should always be comfortable. u can still wear you trainer shoes and falts at casusal occassions, so that is your way. but at dressy occassions, you should follow your husband, wear high heels, because thats what he wants. obviusly he married u cause ur sexy and he wants to look good with you, so if he suggests that u wear 4 inch high heels, u got to. but not all the time. if he still insists that u do then say ok then why don't u try them on and see what i go through. that will get him to let u wear anything u want, but listen to your husband every once and a while. he wants u to look good!
2007-01-01 04:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by sabresgirl43 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some women can wear heels on a constant basis with no physical harm while others cannot.
I think the question is whether this is damaging your feet and whether you trust your husband to consider your safety. Men want their women to be beautiful and feminine and this also makes women feel good about themselves.
So, if your health is not at risk, by all means comply with his wishes. You will get a husband that adores you and you will feel beautiful and sexy.
2007-01-01 19:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by egghead68dk 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you ought to make him wear the heals! You don't make people do anything! Be yourself, Do what feels comfortable for you. The downside to this of course, is you may find out your husband actually likes wearing the heals! That will stem many more questions I'm sure! ; )
2007-01-01 03:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by niceguy_thats_me2000 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No they are not his feet,legs and back that are going to be affected by you wearing 4 inch heels!
2007-01-01 06:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by John34 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
okay four inches is pretty high. but, if you wear flats to an event, wear like, ballet flats, or evening shoes.
2007-01-01 04:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by lindsey 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hes got a thing for heels....Ive dated guys like that its not a big deal, to me anyway. Question is how do you feel about it?....after all its your feet, your calves and your comfort....and you should consider appropriateness of the occasion too.....otherwise go for it.....
2007-01-02 07:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Audra V 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wear what you want, not what he does.
Also wearing heels all the time isn't good for your feet.
2007-01-01 03:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ouch! You're gonna ruin your feet if you aren't careful. You need to wear flats on occasion. And while at home, wear slippers!
2007-01-01 05:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by maddie.wills 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no way! if u wear them all the time then say goodbye to your feet.don't let your husband control you. and please if you want to wear heels definitly don't wear 4 inches high and besisdes , our balance is lost when we walk wearing high heels.. flats are necessary for casual occasions.........
2007-01-01 22:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋