2007-01-01 03:45:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
men become less sexually active because they think they have the wife were they want so they begin dating and having sex outside
2007-01-01 03:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Donna B 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dont listen to most of those answers, maybe they're not married or not men. One of the main reason in my opinion as a married man is that the change of status dont come alone, when you're not maried usually most people ignore the annoying stuff that bother them from anyone near them not just wife, when you have to live with someone, not only you get to learn their annoying habits but you get to sometimes be responsible for them. these annoying habits are one of many factors that turn men off and instead of thinking sex, soon he starts thinking about things like that and he cant really go. In another words, the sex becomes mental and in the days that these things are not a factor, he'll not stop having sex. The other thing is responsibilities. As a provider, sometime when I cant figure out how or what to do to make our family life better, sex the least in my mind and I get so anxious about the life style and the future to the point that no matter how I hard I try, I just wont perform like I know I can. With all that, you have to make sure you also look sexy in some evenings that even when you dont say anything, he'll just jump on you. For me I take it as my job to please the boottty. Good luck!
2007-01-01 06:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by monreve_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't see why because when I was married I was very sexual active but my wife didn't want to ahve sex that much. Sorta like I got what I want now so we can have sex someother time. But some men who's sex drives goes down after marriage might not be totally into the marriage anymore. Sorta like getting layed with the same woman all teh time. But I guess I am different becasue I wanted her all the time but when we got divorced hey then I went somewhere else to get it. SO want to chat more just IM me
2007-01-01 03:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with the same man for 15 years and he is not less sexually active. I think the longer you are together the better the sex gets. Kids, work, life in general can sometimes get in the way of how often you make love. I know we usually have sex 3-4 times a week...maybe more.
2007-01-01 03:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, they really don't become less sexually active, they are just less motivated because their partners have neglected to do their share, like taking good care of themselves and staying fit. Having kids is one of the main reasons why they no longer think of how they look. If wives strive to remain fit and sexually attractive then I don't see any reasons for their husbands to sleep on their sides facing the wall, avoiding the saggy tummy of their partners and covering their ears so as not to hear their snoring. They may be weary from all the money making stuff they do but when they get home and see their wives fresh from the bathroom with all her oozing sex appeal, I am sure they will be looking forward to having sex with them. So, if wives don't take care of themselves anymore, their husbands are most likely to look for sex outside. And beware wives, mistresses are said to be more sensual and aggressive than you are....................
2007-01-01 04:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by brainyluscious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Misogynists and misandrists are who they are, because of the fact they see there is an unfair benefit. If one person had an unfair benefit over yet another person via gang they belong to, no longer because of the fact of something they have completed as someone, then it breeds anger. In any situation the place one team has extra rights or reward than yet another team, then there will be human beings crying "foul", and being labelled. certainty is subjective, and the grass is often greener. yet some rights are written into regulation, and that's the place certainty will become legally binding, and actually unfair.
2016-11-25 20:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women come to bed with flannel pajamas, no make up, complaining how tired they are and wonder why the man doesn't try anything. Before marriage the man got the woman in a sexy teddy, hair made up, make up on, etc. If you want more sex then try being more sexy.
2007-01-01 04:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because most men regret having sex with the same woman or man over and over again after marriage. With online dating of billions of single and adventurous girls or guys, why get married? All men like new challenges, whether straight or gay. It is just too boring and the interest of sex dies with it after marriage with the same partner daily / 365.
2007-01-01 03:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by justfornets 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When people are together for a long period of time, they become much more familar with each other. Any relationship worth having... is worth working for. In my case, it has gotten better, but my wife and I have to make it better. We introduce new things into our love making experience, which makes it better than ever.
2007-01-01 03:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man my husband still wants it daily after six years of marriage.
2007-01-01 03:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋