Ok.. Well life is really getting me down atm.
I broke up with my bf because he was [b][i][t][c][h][i][n][g] about me behind my back saying that i was a fridge because i wouldnt kiss him infront of his friends and my close friend told me that he was but i really thought he was something special..
My Best friend has three best friends me being one of them and one of them dosnt like me so she has been [b][i][t][c][h][i][n][g]about me behind my back to my best friend :( but this girl is really horrid, she b[i]tc[h]es abotu every1 and steals.. even though i tld her not too...
But whats worst of all is that i havnt done anything for them to do this to me... I talked to my mum about it and she says that it will al turn out alright in the end etc...
its getting me down real bad....
2007-01-01 03:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How can you call a person who treats you the way you mention?
If they really treat you like that, FORGET about them and look for real friends!
You are welcome! Happy New Year!
2007-01-01 03:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by saehli 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about these other people and what they are saying. You did the right thing by getting rid of your boyfriend now maybe you could find some real friends who wouldnt talk about you behind your back and ones that wouldnt let others talk to them about you. You can do better than that, it may be hard at first but, you will find better friends.
2007-01-01 11:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to the people that are B _ _ _ _ _ _ G about you. Stop relying on others and their gossiping ways. Just be honest with these people and ask them what you've done to anger them or offend them. Maybe you are doing something and don't even realize it. This way you can either fix it or find friend's that are o.k. with the behaviors that seem to bug these people. Good Luck. Don't stress to much! People just act crazy some time's!
Happy New year! '-0
2007-01-01 11:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your mother has probably already told you this but you cannot control what people think/say about you. The only thing that you can control is your reaction to their immature behavior. My advice, just understand that things like this happen in life and not everyone is going to like you. In fact, they may dislike you for no reason what so ever.... try doing things for yourself....make some new friends and expand your horizions....you wouldn't believe how much better your life can be because of it.
2007-01-01 11:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from all that bs and focus on doing what you have to do to succeed in whatever you want to do. School, music, writing, whatever. Please don't misunderstand me, but it sounds as if you could wait a few years before starting a relationship again. Don't obsess over trivial things like this. Trust me, it won't mean ANYTHING later on down the line. And when you look back, you're going to want to kick yourself in the _ss for wasting your time.
2007-01-01 11:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by rocketcarhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time hun. This is probably is the best thing that could have happened- now your eyes will be opened and you will find out who is a TRUE friend.
2007-01-01 11:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bethany Mum is always right it will turn out alright in the end.
Good luck
kind regards
2007-01-01 11:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by Police Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls are NOT your friends. Why do you hang out with any of them?
Wash your mouth out with soap and get some new friends.
2007-01-01 11:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to make her mad then start a roomer like she stole from a liquer store,. If you whant to be nice then ask her what her prob is with you and work it out
2007-01-01 11:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let ur bf be.dont go back to him and no matter wat he says dont take him back.u need a makeover of sorts.clear ur head.take ur time to choose ur next bf and make sure he is understanding and not a jerk.just be nice to the ppl who r nice to u and the ones who are not nice should be completely ignored.show them u dont need them.it ll all be alright soon.cheers
2007-01-01 11:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by :-(confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋