I am worried about this girl...?
Hi, I am 16 and was wondering how I can go about this. I asked this girl out while she had a boyfriend because I knew he was only with her to have sex with her. The junior prom is coming soon, and I am worried that it will be "their night". What can I do to prevent it. The only reason I am asking is because I have feelings for her, and do not want her to get hurt. Please tell me how I can break them up before May 2nd, which is the night of the junior Prom? How can I prevent it? Thank You...
2007-01-01 03:18:59 · 9 answers · asked by FlyFisher19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stay her loyal friend and be the shoulder for her to cry on when he ditches her. If you tell her to dump him she will just get angry with you, she has to figure it out herself.
2007-01-01 03:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is all you have to worry about in life then you are doing alright.
If this girl loves you then be yourself she will see eventually that you may be better than her present boyfriend and ditch him before May 2nd.
Problem solved.
Other than that make friends with the boyfriend and buy him a ticket for something he likes for the day of the 2nd May and he will go there and you can go to the prom..
Good luck
2007-01-01 03:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Police Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you friends with he at all? If so, or if not, try telling her other friends to talk with her about her boyfriend, and sex. Make sure that her friends(since if you dont know her that well it would be rather akward) to tell ehr that this guy is a known user, and she should watch out. Also make sure that she knows if he actually likes her, he would wait. Good luck, I hope you save her!
2007-01-01 03:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Carina G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant break up something if she cares about him.She already has a date to the prom. If you do something to try and break it up with them she might not like you anymore. Give her time but now isnt the time to do that.
2007-01-01 03:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tricky one. You can try the staying friends and hoping she figures it out, because she really won't listen to reason while she's going out with him. That said, she will blame you for not warning her after the breakup.
2007-01-01 03:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Shadebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go and ruin some one elses realtionship yes you may like her alot and yes you may have feelings for her but you need to talk to her and let her know how you feel and thing may or may not change but you have 5 months and if you tell her that he is only dating you to have sex she will probaly changer her mind but just talk to her and she will see your point and you are a great friend to think about that!!! she is very lucky to have you
2007-01-01 03:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by hellokitty_19_2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send out the rumor that he's got the crabs.
2007-01-01 03:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be frank with her. tell her honestly your intentions and still if she does not understand, let her go. it is her problem then.
2007-01-01 03:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt they will be together that long...You might not have to do anything
2007-01-01 03:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋