Have you ever had a friend that says your their friend but your really not(doesnt it feel like that)?

Question

i havea friend at school and we been best friends gor 2 years now but she is acting like she is not my friend but when ever i ask her im i you best friend or your friend she says best friend but she doesnt really act like it so what should i do please tell me and if you dont have a clue thx anyways for trying

Answer 1

Well sit her down and talk about it. Tell her that if you really are her best friend that she isn't acting like it. Ask her if she wants to continue being "best friends" if she does then try and hang out with her more often and get back the old fun friendship you two used to have. If she says no then make more friends, I'm pretty sure you can. Make new friends and possibly you will meet a new best friend. If she doesn't want to be best friends then that's fine but that doesn't mean you can't still be friends.

or...

You may still be her best friend but remember a person can have more than one best friend. I have seven best friends. So maybe you still are her best friend but unfortunately, you are probably lower down than the other ones she has.

Answer 2

Unfortunately I think I'm in a similar situation and have no clear clue asto what to do...But I think the best way I deal with this is having another friend whose worth the time and with whom I share my secrets and my opinions and I'm slowly distancing myself with the other, It's actually working...

Answer 3

Her actions speak louder than her words. If she doesn't feel like a friend to you anymore, she probably isn't. And that is nothing against her, people change and drift apart.

Answer 4

One of my friends feels the same way. I would find other people to hang out with. Try people who have the same interests.
GOOD LUCK!!! : ) : ) : )

Answer 5

tell her what you feel