When i see Black men/women,especially the women with White people as their mates, i become so enraged that sheer violence and anger engulf me. I have never acted upon it, but i fear that one day i will, PARTICULARLY towards the Black female.
can someone answer this,or make an intelligent suggestion?
2007-01-01 02:12:06 · 21 answers · asked by terry j 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Some of you are right in your assessment as well as your opionions and views. But being programmed and BRAINWASHED as i was growing up it's quite difficult to reverse the effects.
Also, i was not programmed nor brainwashed by my race(BLACK)
thank you for your comments.
2007-01-01 02:32:58 · update #1
You've got a nasty racist linking under the surface there. One because you believe black women should only be with black men, and two because you believe black men have no business messing with white women. But love knows no color, and for those willing and open to see it...life can be so much more. We are not defined by race, or position in life...because we are all the same. People like to divide themselves and prove their own superiority...I think deep down you were raised to believe mixed relationships were wrong and an insult to fellow members of your race...as if the person guilty were actually saying that a member of their own race wasn't good enough for them. Personally, I think love is love. It doesn't matter who shares it, only that it is shared. Life is too short, too hard, and too sad to make matters worse by denying ourselves something beautiful because such-n-such is a different nationality. We can all learn something from someone else...and maybe the something even you need to learn is from someone opposite you in every way. Open your mind and learn. Don't let the opinions and convictions of others become your own without first living experiences worthy of those opinions.
2007-01-01 02:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Destiny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can only go by your picture that you are black...I would tend to believe that you have felt a good measure of rejection in your life...somehow getting a message that you somehow are not enough....So when you see some one from your own race with someone from another race...the message in your mind is the black race (you included) is once again being rejected, being told you are not enough....If this is so...I am sorry for your pain...that this is the message you have received in your life...You just need to reprogram your brain that you are a wonderfully made and worthy human being...Good Luck...P.S. Don't let anger be the way you express yourself in this world...it is such a waste. Don't accept the message that you are not worth anything...go forward and embrace your greatness. And let others be free to do that also.
2007-01-01 10:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should you feel anger and rage at love. People fall in love. They do not always find themselves attracted to people of the same race. I grew up thinking it was taboo to date outside of your race but as I grew up and matured, I realized the only thing that matters at the end of the day is that you are with someone who makes you feel good about yourself, you life and your love for them. Don't let your rage of years of being raised a certain way stop you from looking what the bottom line is, LOVE.
2007-01-01 11:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is blatant racism. Why do you think it bothers you so much? Think about your answer. Then ask yourself "But why?". You will eventually find a logical answer or you will realize that you are advancing hate as part of your character. My father is a bigot. He is a republican. He's a misogynist as well. Thank goodness I didn't follow in his footsteps. The more you hate, the fewer paths will be available to you throughout life. Good luck. I hope you can conquer these feelings.
2007-01-01 10:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by tombollocks 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to speak to a mental-health professional about these feelings of anger you have -- before you end up acting on your feelings.
I'm black-hispanic and I've had relationships with white men before. If you can't accept that, then it's your problem and not mine.
If you can't learn to be more tolerant of people like me, then the least you can do is keep your racism to yourself.
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2007-01-01 10:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should go to a counsler and track down where the rage is coming from and then they can help you deal with it or channel it elsewhere. You need to figure it out now before you end up hurting someone and getting yourself thrown in jail.
2007-01-01 10:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by pelenpuppy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you feel that way, as long as we continue to see everyone as different racism will exist ... and it's not just white people who are the cause ... to be treated equally you need to act like there is no difference and you still see the difference. I hope you find something that will give you peace!!!
2007-01-01 10:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Chele 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you read up on the teachings of Martin Luther King and M. Gandhi who I believe will prove to you the anger in you is not justified or warranted.
2007-01-01 10:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ted 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well im half black and i prefer the black side of my family. i dont feel different seeing different races of ppl dating each other because i think the diversity is a good thing. its always gonna be around. i guarentee u.
2007-01-01 10:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man you need counselling. Dont hesitate to seek help. Feeling like these are faced my many people at some point of time in their life. You need to overcome them.
2007-01-01 10:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by ash 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋