had termination in april 2006 already had four children and I am now tired at the age of 38. none stop bleeding lost 2 stone in weight having my house repossesed by bankcruptsy from ex husband. partner now has had an aquired brain injury. kids seem fine but partner is violent cos of this. have not worked for 12 years cos i want to bring the kids up to the best i can. I think that is the best way. Getin hot flushes, loss of sex drive, had ivf with my second child. my first has just met his real dad. my third and fourth child are by my recent partner of the last four years. he is 16 years younger than me. i love him but the family unit is not as good as i would like it to be. my health is now suffering i smoke 30 a day and drink quite abit to deal with the situations, which does not help in the long run. I am worried about my body lots of things are going wrong. please help me.
2007-01-01 01:53:41 · 4 answers · asked by puslovbit2 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
stop smoking and drinking call your doctor about the bleeding. get that seen about and then get your but up and get a job those are your kids to and they need money to live on. I have friends who live with family and they are all working even with him having cancer and loosing there home so get busy.
2007-01-01 01:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by buddy95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try to cut back on your smoking and drinking. Those two things alone can save you A LOT of money in the long run. smoking a pack and a half a day at only $3 a day will save you $135 a month. I don't know what you are drinking but even just cheap beer costs $5 at least and think of the money that would save.
Your health issues should be seen by a doctor. If you have no insurance or cash, there are programs that will help you get your medical screenings at a reduced price.
Try getting your life under control, you are only really hurting the kids.
2007-01-01 03:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your life is only screwed up becuase you want it to be....if you really wanted to help yourself you wouldnt be smoking instead of making house payments or rent payments and you wouldnt have internet if you couldnt pay bills....and you would get a job if you really wanted your kids to have a good life.....stop begging for sympathy and get a job and quit all of the nonsense.....this isnt the stone age....get real hun...
2007-01-01 05:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by sexycheerleader2009 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop smoking get a job and stop being stupid
2007-01-01 02:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by KP 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋