I wish to do something in my life to be called as a successfull man. What should i do ? I m 34 now and working in ... govt sector. I am doing MBA also but now a days i am unable to read as i do not feel good from inside. cheerfullness is almost lost and tiredness is always on me. I know i am wasting my time which i m not supposed to. Do i go to doctor ? or ?????
2007-01-01 01:37:53 · 7 answers · asked by uday m 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Get little rest and recreation in your life. Put way the books of a while and relax, go for long walk, run a little.
Your problem is boredom, if you must read, read a comedy.
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See a doctor only for general check up. Like say deficiency of some chemicals or vitamines.
Full time job and full time study can make any one very tied. So get some fun out of your life. "All work and no play, can make even a joy full Johny a dull boy"
2007-01-01 01:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have felt this way for a long period of time seeking professional help is a wise thing, 34 is a pretty common age for a mid-life crisis however. In the end to be happy you have to have a passion for something in your life friend, it is easy enough to get caught in the rat race, letting other people make choices about your life and where and what you should do. Find a passion and apply yourself, is it work in the community, investment in a fulfilling relationship, broadening your self and your views? A real definition of successful must come from you. And once you decide what that is pursue it. While the problem could be a physical one or a mental one it could just as well be you have come to a point where you need more in life. I cannot tell you how to find "your more". I can only tell you until you do the "pain" will continue. Talk to your doc easy enough to see if the problems have a medical or psychological origin. Once that is eliminated your path will become a clear one. Be well.
2007-01-01 01:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rod s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wish to do something in your life to be called a successful man? The question is...by who's standards? If you earn a billion dollars, to some you'll never make enough to be called successful; become an ambassador and there are those who will say you've not done enough to be considered successful; pursue any career and there will always be those who will not consider you successful.
There are as many standards of success as there are means of achieving it. In the end, it is you who will decide what has made you successful. It doesn't come from the amount of money you make or the things you amass, but how many lives you impact upon and improve. We've become too much of a materialistic society and place value on things, and not people.
Your feeling distracted and depressed can be due to simple chronic exhaustion. With all that you're doing, it's easy to forget to take time for adequate rest and mental diversion. Taking a little time out to divert yourself is not wasting it but investing it. If you don't recharge your mental batteries, sooner or later, your work is going to suffer, not to mention your outlook on life.
It will do you a lot of good to take a little time to inventory what your strong points are; your talents; the things that bring you satisfaction. There's where your success lies. Pursue those, and no matter what others may think of you, to those whose lives you enrich, you will be a success.
2007-01-01 09:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bacchante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to consult a doctor the problem is inside u . you have motivate you self think that nothing is wrong and 34 your still young and you can do hell lot of things, finish you MBA , the best thing I'll tell you is to keep yourself busy, just engage yourself into many things. So that you will never feel that u r not success full man.
2007-01-01 08:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by rathu s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a small dog, go tent camping every other weekend, stop drinking coffee and pepsi, eat a salad every day, wear jewlery, and whenever you go shopping and a cashiere asks your name tell her your name is "Tito".
2007-01-01 01:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by another detroit bassist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...eat fresh friuts and vegetables, get some sunlight and study natural things to find God.
2007-01-01 01:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by spir_i_tual 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to school!!!!!!
2007-01-01 02:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋