2007-01-01 01:28:20 · 9 answers · asked by revello 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, that depends on just how badly you want to be UNMARRIED.
Are you going to let these feelings ruin what you have with your wife? If it's a happy marriage, then you might want to be thankful for what you do have, as apposed to what you do not. If things don't suit you now, if wifey is ignoring you, I suggest trying to take your wife out on a "date". Rekindle the romance. If you were completely happy, you wouldn't be thinking about the teenage sweetheart.
Even if you get to your "teenage sweetheart" it doesn't mean she'll want you too. (and I'm assuming you mean she was a former teenager. If shes a teenager now that would be jail bait which will get you jailtime unless she's of legal age.)
2007-01-01 01:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make it right or keep it moving. Why didn't you marry your teenage sweetheart? What was she lacking that your wife possess? If you love your teenage sweetheart truly, madly, deeply, then those feelings will never go away and you're going to have to deal with that knowledge for the rest of your life. I don't see how your wife will ever fully have 100% of your love if it's being divided with another woman.
If it came down to it, would you leave your wife to rekindled feelings with this other woman? With which person do you feel you'll be the most happy?
You can never forget the person who touched your heart and made you feel things no one else ever has. It's that simple.
2007-01-01 01:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he wants to be divorced, as they say there ain't no fool like an old fool. u seem to think this teenage sweetheart will remain for u forever. u won't have to let go, but i would bet when a younger guy comes her way you will be out the door. and it will serve u right for cheating on your wife, and taking advantage of a young girl. theres always karma involved also that will find u no matter how hard u try to hide from it.
2007-01-01 09:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You realize for one thing, that the grass always appears greener on the other side of the fence. You get those feelings into a kind of "sweet sadness" that won't ever be category.
2007-01-01 01:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was your teenage sweetheart, not your wife. Although you may still have feelings, get over her because you are married now.
2007-01-01 01:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is: if you had feelings for someone else, you should NOT have gotten married to your wife. Why do people not see marriage for what it is? Two people who love only each other... You've committed yourself to you wife until death. You shouldn't have made that commitment if you love someone else.
2007-01-01 01:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your teenage sweetheart is your wife, then yes.
2007-01-01 01:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by rjinaz81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he shouldnt let go of something that is real and probaly his soulmate. he married the wrong person.
2007-01-01 01:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by sexy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask alex ,He could answer that!!!!!!!!
2007-01-01 01:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋