recently had sex with a guy whom i knew only for 2 hours. i missed my period, my marriage is due on 12th jan what do i do?
2007-01-01 00:44:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think i am carrying.whorst he secretly took the video of the whole exercise
he is blackmailing me and my marriage is due on 12th jan pl give a suitable advice its serious
2007-01-03 01:00:23 · update #1
Well it sounds as though you have had sex with 2 different men.Thats not fair to the guy you are marrying.If you only knew a guy for 2 hours and had unprotected sex with him you might want to go get checked for stds and call off your marriage and tell your partner about what you have done so he can get checked to for stds if you had sex with him after doing this stranger.And then maybe he can find someone to marry that will be faithful to him
2007-01-01 00:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people don't understand your impulsive action. However, I do. Maybe you just wanted one last fling before you locked up the funhouse. Maybe you were scared and this was a way to lower your anxiety. It really is not relevant at this point, because another life may be involved.
You should take an early detection pregnancy test before you panic. Buy two to be sure. IF you are pregnant, it may be necessary to be honest with your fiancee. You need to take responsibility for your actions. Can you live with yourself otherwise? OF couse, depending on where you actually live, there may be the abortion option. Again, this involves a lot o fthinking on your part. Have you consulted anyone that you are close to to help you with the emotional roller coaster you are probably on? Can you live with an abortion in your past? Some people can, some not. Good luck.
2007-01-01 00:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why on earth would you do such a stupid thing ?? All l can say is you obviously do not love your fiance enough to marry him. Be honest with him about what you have done or it will eventually consume you because of the guilt. If you do not feel any guilt then that proves that you do not love your fiance. Face the music and tell him the whole truth and then l guess it's up to him whether he chooses to forgive you or not. I honestly hope you get your period or there will be another poor unwanted child in this already crazy world. Best of luck with everything.
2007-01-01 00:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm unlikely to call u a slut or something with the aid of fact u r no longer the 1st lady this is has been via this yet i'll ask u "Why did no longer u shield ur self?" u could have prevented this if u used a condom yet any who the only factor u can do is tell those adult men this is its a threat that the two one in each and every of them ought to father ur new child and then in simple terms wait til the toddler is born...do no longer supply ur toddler up for adoption considering the fact it extremely is a lot greater worst than no longer understanding who the father is good success!
2016-10-06 07:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by marceau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a problem, your fiance either knows you're a tramp or he deserves what he's about to be served...if your guy and the 'quick nut' resemble each other at all, you're in good shape as long as you can keep your trap shut. But, that seems unlikely, as you couldn't keep your legs shut; nor could you help but blurt it out in a public forum for the world to pass judgement on. I'd say one way or another, the law of Karma is going to jump up and bite you in the azz, eventually.
2007-01-01 01:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would think twice about making a commitment. It seems as if you're not ready for marriage. As far as the missed period, well you should check with a pregnancy test at least a week after your missed period.
2007-01-01 01:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dayum! Where u at least drinking? and if so was he at least buying??? he must have been spitting some powerful game LOL.
But on a serious note, b4 all the panick, get tested firsts may not be what u think ...might just be stress of wedding day nearby ..through ur cycle off.
2007-01-01 04:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by real_eyez_recognize_liez79 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One thing is certain: You're NOT ready for marriage in any sense that is generally understood. Get tested, make whatever decision you need to make based on the results, get counseling to learn why it is you have dysfunctional behavior (that's what it's called when it leads you to a place between a rock and a hard place), and don't marry as scheduled--you're not ready for it.
2007-01-01 01:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What are you doing, Trying to get on Jerry Springer? Tell your fiancee' and let him decide whether or not to go through with the marriage. God bless you, your a slut! Do the honorable thing and go out, serve your fellow man (men)!
2007-01-01 01:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Road 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think u have a problem, now u don't know who the daddy is, could belong to either one. if u tell your fiance he will not want to marry you, if u tell the guy he may not want to take responsibility for it. why did u ever do this? and put yourself in this mess. our choices do create our destinies unfortunately. you've messed up and it's really up to u on what u do. your fiance will never forgive this if he finds out.
2007-01-01 01:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋