one teacher thinks im 3 months along and anoth teacher along with mi friends thought i was 6 months. i had an abortion in november and i just let ppl think i was still pregnant and i went along with it and faked the birth over break from school they think it was a preemie and died how do i explain this or do i just keep mi mouth shut and not say ne thing about it ne more?
2007-01-01 00:35:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
As a mother that recently went through a stillbirth, I find this disgusting.
Honestly I think you should just never mention this again. It will likely come back to haunt you at some point (your teachers saying something to your parents, your friends speaking with your parents, etc). People are really concerned with your health and wellbeing. Dealing with the loss of an infant is traumatic at best. I hope you aren't getting any special treatment because of this. You should refuse any kind of assistance they give you and if they persist THEN you should come clean.
2007-01-01 00:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you come clean with everyone and tell them the truth? You had an abortion! Are you that embarrassed of what you done that you have to continue to lie? Then, to make matter worse and you did the worst thing by saying that you went into labor and the baby was preemie and died. Your sick. How in the hell can you say something like that. There are so many women out there that have delivered babies and something horrible like that had passed away and they morn for the rest of their lives. Your pathetic and not to mention that if you did have a baby and it was born preemie you would have to bury the child and get a death certificate . You need to come clean and tell everyone the truth and stop your disgusting, horrible, demented lies. GROW UP WOULD YOU?????
2007-01-01 08:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by ws_422 4 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I think you need some serious help. You're the same person who asked if parental permission was needed for an abortion in Ohio for a 13 year old, which tells me that you're 13, and you're making all this up for attention on Yahoo. On one of the questions you asked, you indicated that your mom doesn't know about the pregnancy, yet here, you are saying you got an abortion, which you would've needed parental permission to get.
What's the real story?
Regardless, such pathological need for attention indicates a bigger problem. Get some help.
2007-01-01 09:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by annieohbee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You must come out with truth! The saying "The truth will set you free" it is true.If you learn anything it is to keep quiet before you open your mouth about a private and personal matter like this one. The lies will only end up in the long run destroying you more than the issue beneath them!
2007-01-01 08:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by LVforever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow alots of lies there it will get hard to keep up with it when you had the abortion you should have just been honest or a least said that was when you lost the baby. If you really want to get out of this i would tell the turth
2007-01-01 08:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by makeup_lady101 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Wow what an attention monger...people like you ruin it for people that really need concern...you should fess up...write nice little note cards to the people that you involved telling what happened and apologize...I am sure you are going to get some cold shoulders, but you need to do this.
2007-01-01 08:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are still a child, don't worry too much, adults will understand what happened.
Your decision is justified, due to your lack of experience and wisdom. while it is not a good decision. talking to your mom straight what happened will comfort you in the long run. and make your live your future life free from guilt. let her know then sit back. accept your mistakes, you didn't listen to parents advices, be strong and face the consequences if you want to continue to live with face up high.
2007-01-01 08:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is advisable to keep mouth shut, and do not respond to these types of questions, This is a personal matter and should be avoided to be opened for discussions.
If u have earlier disclosed about Ur pregnancy to Ur friends,teachers just say them that u were joking,when the matter gets hot enough.
2007-01-01 08:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by AVANISH JI 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
i don't believe you..u keep posting questions about that some say u had the abortion..some say u want to have an abortion.
2007-01-01 10:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by drg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was really wrong of you to do that to people, you mucked around with their emotions and how people were feeling and thats terrible. Confess face to face with people so they can react to what you are telling them and I bet my bottom dollar once you see the hurt, disapointment and lack of trust on those peoples faces you won't do it again. Ever
2007-01-01 08:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by soloxine_rabbit 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋