c,i had a frien who was relly colose to me......v were relly good friends.....dne i stated to like him...one f my friends told him...n now he doesnt wanna talk to me....wat can i do??
2007-01-01 00:24:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had a friend that I loved too...I lost him also. His name was Darren and we were internet buddies. I even told him I liked him, and in return he called me babe. But then he stopped calling me that, and stopped writing as often. I haven't heard from him in a month. I think the best thing you should do, is put him behind you. I know this may sound difficult, but you have to try. Focusing on him is just going to make the pain worse. Try focusing on other things you love and feel free to check other guys out. I've been doing that for a while now and I feel great. Also listen to some music. I'm not a major music fan myself, but I learned that several songs soothe me when I remember him. My Immortal, Missing and Bring me to life by Evanescence works nicely for me. I'm even listening to Baha Men's 'Who let the dogs out?' Evanescence can soothe your pain and Baha Men can make you happy again, heck even the Macarana helps. Also watch some funny videos on Youtube. Create an account and watch something that will really make you laugh! I highly recommend looking up The Simpsons and farting videos! Keep yourself busy with fun-filled activities so you won't get a chance to sulk about him. Be positive and keep your head up. It's going to be a while before you feel entirely better, but it will be okay. Don't give up!
2007-01-01 00:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by nichellecomicbookgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Truly believe that some guys just want the close friendship of a girl companion and if they feel like you want more they run and hide if for no other reason than to not hurt your feelings.Guys can be very caring creatures they may not make the best choices but they make a lot of them following there heart.
2007-01-01 00:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you shd forget him n move on... he isn't a good pal if he stopped talkin to u for such a trivial thing! Or maybe you shud get to the bottom of the thing n approach him to ask him wat was it exactly that ur friend diclosed bout you... then make him understand that sometimes havin feelings for ur friend isn't something you plan... it just happens... an that u wud never want to lose his friendship for anything in this world...tell him to forget the whole thing like a nightmare an start fresh. All the best!!
2007-01-01 00:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by sonz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well either he wasn't as good of a friend as you thought he was or he was surprised hearing how you felt about him and doesn't know how to act around you so he stepped back. I'd just go on and do things you normally do and see what happens. I mean he might come around again and then you can see what happens. Good luck to you. ;o)
2007-01-01 01:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, give him some space. guys always need time to think things through. Second, talk to him about your feelings. Third, think about being just friends if he is not attracted to you, can you handle this? if not that may be why he is not talking to you, if you can handle this (being just friends) then let him know this.
2007-01-01 00:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by brian c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aS I too am a girl I also had this problem.See just go to him tell him u love him and if he ignores this answer just live him for some days.After some days he will fell lonely and will fell gulity for what he had done.He will another day definately come to u and say he loves u."Trust GOD".
2007-01-01 03:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if u have not told anything to him yet then he should not believe on others' words.
he should trust u if he is ur true friend.
and if he is not talking to u stop giving importance to him and stop wasting ur time and concentrate on ur priority.
2007-01-01 00:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by UnIqUe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lost love in the first place the more you love more it hurts
2016-05-23 02:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a letter,tell him you still want your friendship back but you'll respect whatever his decisions...you are willing to give him space or freedom,just assured him that you''ll just be around when he needs you
2007-01-01 00:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything but ignore him to and most likely he'll come around to wanting to be your friend again.
2007-01-01 00:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by EchoAnn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋