I have been with my fiancee for a while. Recently, I have taken an interest in the panties that she wears (usually the really pretty, silky ones from victorias secret). I'm so curious to try them on as part of our bedroom activities. I'm totally straight and have no desire to be a woman or anything like that (nor do I want to go around wearing them all day long). Its just that the idea of trying on something of hers thats so intimate and forbidden really excites me. How do I approach her about it? If shes not sure about it or opposed to it, how do I get her to accept it? Please help because its something I really really want to do and share with her (hopefully without freaking her out). Thanks.
2007-01-01 00:06:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you know that I think that you should ask her in the same way that you wrote this.
Tell her its such an intimate part of her and you would really like to see what they feel like on.
Hopefully she is open minded enough to realize its a fantasy and that you are just curious.
Or you could just go into it like that . tell you its been a fantasy of yours for a long time since you have known her and would really like if she would allow you to try on her panties. If you want her to be in the same room then let her know that you would like her to be there with you as well.
How long have you been with each other.
I am hoping that she will understand your wish. They don't make panties like this for men and the lacy silky texture has you fascinated with the way they might feel like .
I guess its the only way other than by sneaking the pair into the washroom and trying them on.
good luck
Happy New Year.
2007-01-01 01:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh no worries at all. That's not an unusual fantasy for a guy to have. I know it can be uncomfortable to address secret desires with your significant other. Since this is your fiance we're talking about though you need to trust her enough to be able to be open with her, even about your fantasies. Pick your moment wisely. Don't bring it up in a moment when you and she are being romantic or getting ready to be. It's best of this type of discussion is had outside the bedroom. You may be surprised at how glad she is that you could share these thoughts with her!
2007-01-01 08:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rosetinted 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i would think first of all if you are together for a while you should be able to talk to her about this openly and freely, just sit her down and ask her about it how she would feel, if you feel you will be rejected or looked at funny from than on, talk about it as if you seen it on tv or something and take it from there,
good luck and remember, if she isn't into it, respect her feelings about it as well, just as you want her to respect you about yours
2007-01-01 08:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by dutchcutie68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told you before--make it a playful bedroom game with her.
2007-01-01 08:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t do that ...
2007-01-01 08:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by stow7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋