My g/f and I just broke up and I am heart broken! I miss her soo much. If anyone can help the reason we broke up is because she liked someone else and thought I couldn't give her the love that she neded. Can you help me get her back? I love her, and she also loves me!
2007-01-01 00:01:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Forget her!!! I bet I could take your mind off her!!! :)
2007-01-01 01:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by CURVY 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well it's in her court now..I mean I understand where u r coming from but its up to her to take u back..have u asked her?If she loves u and u love her then what is holding u back? Call her talk to her let her know how u feel and if there is room for a second chance to work things out..if she feels for u the same way then it should get a good result but if she doesn't and she is moving on then be strong.. I was in your shoes and I still am..I hope you find the courage to talk to her now rather than wait too long and lose her..don't end up like me..I still miss my amor and it's 3 yrs later..good luck to u~
2007-01-01 09:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. the same type of thing happened to me with my ex-boyfriend. I missed him soo much and wanted to try and get him back, but it didnt work, just made me look foolish. Also, she may not be all the worth it if shes just gonna dump you and go for someone she had a "crush" on. Maybe the best thing is to try and move on? You say she loves you but do you think if she loved you that she would break up with you? Meh, i dont know, but if you feel like you cant move on, try talking with her about it. Tell her your feelings and how much you care about her, and if that doesnt work, then...maybe she wasn't the one for you. Hope that helped lol!
2007-01-01 08:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by BlondBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to gay love.
People keep yelling at me for saying this, but gay relationships are usually short term. Sexually adventerous people like gays tend to be get sexually bored with the same person no matter what.
You don't want to hear it, but I only tell the truth, 'cause lies, no matter how many people believe 'em and no matter how pleasent, have a nasty sharp end that usually gets stuck in the softest person around.
BTW, nobody who loves you leaves you except to go to work and come back home. They sure as H$LL don't cheat on you.
Bottom line, you want something long term, find a nice guy who's looking for that, or wait 30 years and find a woman who's lesbian but is looking for someone to be her friend more than a lover.
Sorry, Pumpkin.
2007-01-01 10:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by jim w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do better than that, wanting someone who leaves you for someone else!
You are hurt, and you may still love her, as hard it may sound, you may need just find a way to let go.
Rejection is never easy. Happy 2007 -- May God grant you all your heart's wishes.
2007-01-01 09:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kedar 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not the end of the world, there are more fish in the sea. If she really loved you she would not have left you. Wipe your tears mend your heart and move on.
2007-01-01 08:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by butterman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting involved in something helpful, like a soup kitchen, or an organization that teaches people to read. That way, you'll get your mind off yourself, and you'll feel better.
2007-01-01 11:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her! Ask her what kind of love she needs that you are not giving her. But please, don't hang on to something that may no longer be there. If she can not give you a good answer to your question, I know it hurts - but you will have to move on. My heart goes out to you!
2007-01-01 10:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by chuzzlemegreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweets, if she left you for someone else, she'd probably do it again, were you to get back together.
Call her once, tell her how you feel. leave it at that. The ball has to be in her court.
2007-01-01 08:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say that she needed more space with you and she probally did not want a one girl woman. She justs wants to have it with different girls. If you only want one GF then make it known,there is lots out there
2007-01-01 09:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋