I had a good frd , loved him so much , very close to me, shares all problems with him, now not alive, expired in road accident. Now hesitating to mingle with others , fera to share problems with others. Totally confused. Why is it so ??????????????????
2006-12-31 23:35:50 · 20 answers · asked by miya p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its perfectly fine... u just need some time to heal tads all.....try doing stuff.. take ur mind off things... there's nothing to fear abt.. i mean look..even now ur sharing ur problems..with ppl..down here.. rite..?... so,..dont be confused...go out alittle...and do smthing fun..for a change.. good luck btw..;)
2006-12-31 23:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Redweedplace ® 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you were very close with this person, so of course after they died you are maybe reluctant to trust any new friends, maybe this was the only close friend you had at the time, and just feel shy or not sure after losing them if you can trust again, well even though that person is gone, there are always new friends, of course they will never take the place of the one you lost, but you must allow yourself new friends and new experiences, this is life and you must live life always to the fullest, if you don't want to share everything right away, thats cool, all in good time....there is no rush.....good luck
2007-01-01 01:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by zeekandthefam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how that is i lost my aunt a few years ago because of a car accident. The reason y is because yoyour scared that if u get close to someone else you might loose them the same way u lost ur friend. Right now you need time to get yourself back together before you try and mingle with other people. Right now just focus on getting your life back on track. It may hurt for a bit but your friend wouldn't want you to grieve forever.
2007-01-03 19:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Suzen Bond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly fine thats coz u both were really good frendz let some time to pass when u will have a new frend and share same kind of relation with them then u will b perfectly fine.........
Dont fear to share ur feelings with other dont hesitate coz it will affect u so pls pls dont do that and have a new frend who can share ur feelings and who can understand u. I know how it feels when some1 so important leaves u but thats law of nature so pls come out of this and live life happily even ur that frend also dont want to see u like this atleast for ur good frend u have to come out of it andshare ur problems with other frends. ok take care.....
bye keep :-))
2007-01-01 22:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by pearly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear you lost your best friend. No one can replace a good friend, you are so luck to have met such a wonderful friend in your life.
But life goes on, its just that you are not healed from within, you are having this fear that anyone you love will eventually go away from your life, this is not true, reach out to people as much as you can, who knows there should be someone like your friend out in this world. Your friend has taught you real friendship, now be someone like him, who will not like someone like your friend, take him to be your role model and spread the wings of friendship in the air, you may get what you want.
2007-01-01 09:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear
u've lost your important support, it's natural to feel unprotected. I would say, find a friend whom u can share ur all problems like u did earlier.
It will take time but that's the only way, go for it.
Best of Luck
2006-12-31 23:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Miya, I am extremely touched with your question…anyway, many among us have experienced this feeling in their lives…always remember that your friend’s spirit is very much with you…just get on with your life as if he is there…be positive and go ahead with plans etc that was important to both of you. By and by nature will take its course, wounds will heal and hopefully you will find love again. All the best !
2007-01-01 00:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really very sad, since had good affection. Anyway man proposes but god disposes. Out of our control. time alone will give u an answer. Very much involve on studies or job. Go to religious places and worship god. I pray for u, may god bless u to provide piece of mind, good health and good friendship during 2007.
2006-12-31 23:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by takeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just afraid of losing someone else as you did your friend. It's hard when you lose someone close to you and I know this well. I'm sorry for your loss but with time things will get better for you. I think your just going thru the normal stage of missing your friend. Just hang in there. ;o)
2007-01-01 01:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural that after the death of a very close friend, one tends to keep to themselves and not want to mix with other people. but you must come out of that shell, would your friend have wanted you to feel always depressed.??? no isnt it?? try,try to mingle with others, even a little. your friend hasnt gone anywhere, hes there in your heart and hell always be near you, like a guardian angel. by this behavior of yours you might be hurting other people. plz try and come out of your depression. and i am sorry for the loss of your friend
2007-01-01 14:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋