i am feeling embarassed when some nice guys come in my contact since i am sexually attracted towards them. i have a close g-friend who said that i should consult psycologist is there any other way out?
2006-12-31 23:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think i am carrying
he had secretly video shoot of the exercise
now he is blackmailing me my marriage is on 12th jan wat do i do?
2007-01-03 00:20:33 · update #1
i succembed to this and had an exercise with a 18 yr old boy
2007-01-03 00:21:53 · update #2
You are 20 and you like guys.... nothing wrong with that
2006-12-31 23:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's to be embarassed about? Just because you are sexually turned on doesn't make you a bad person. And this also does not mean you need help. Now if you were jumping into bed with every single guy that you met and you liked then I would say you need help. BUT to just be turned on by them isn't bad.
2007-01-01 07:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be embarrassed, they do not realize the effect they have on you, I am sure. If you are not allowed to act on your attraction due to religious constraints, that doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you for feeling a certain way. If you think about it, doesn't it say more about your character and devotion if you have feelings that you must deny, rather than simply not having feelings in the first place?
2007-01-01 07:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by dpemily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like to pray?
Take good care because nowadays it is very difficult with this "chapter"...if you are sexually attracted it seems that something it is wrong. Why? God didn't create us to be as almost all young boys and girls are today. All te mass-media transformed their feelings...please try to talk with a REAL priest that can help you. It's not normal for an ORTHODOX CHRISTIAN
to say what you said (sorry!!, but it is the truth.) May God give you all the strength you need. Take good care!
http://www.svots.edu/Faculty/Albert-Rossi/Articles/Saying-the-Jesus-Prayer.html
2007-01-01 07:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Consult a physcologist for having normal, healthy feelings toward the opposite sex? Your friend is the odd one, not you.
2007-01-01 07:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this proves you are not a lesbian...
if you are from an orthodox family ...talk to them about the guy you like...be careful...orthodox family arranges marriages quickly.Assure them you will not go flirting with the guy
2007-01-01 07:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by sheila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and be true to that
if you like them let your self free
get to know one or all the boys
but do not do anything you do not want to
2007-01-01 07:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by tgirl 969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋