We just floated apart
2006-12-31 23:02:51 · 27 answers · asked by DAVID W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if u tell your wife, your marriage will be over with. when u are devoting time to the other women u are not working on your marriage. u may think u love these other women, because it's all new and exciting right now, but in reality in a year or so it will get just as mundane and boring as what u have now. u expect others to fill that empty feeling u have, but u have to fill the empty feeling yourself. no wife is going to want to put up with a husband who wants another woman, u can kiss your marriage good by, maybe it will bother u, maybe not.
2007-01-01 01:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well technicaly if you are at the beach ..and in the water ...she will understand that you can see other women and other men and the world around you ...and then you may float apart because she will think you have lost the plot for making such a statement....and she will float away
2006-12-31 23:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jesus G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you drifted apart why didnt you try marriage counciling or divorcing her before you started throwing it in other women? Seriously. I personally would rather have a man leave me than have the pain of knowing he was cheating. I personally would tell my wife, and if she felt like still being with you..stop cheating and seek counciling. however if she doesnt want to be with you...settle the relationship and understand she will probably hate you for the rest of your life.
2006-12-31 23:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by dreamzindigital_20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should sit down with your wife and communicate to her what you are feeling. The most common breakdown in a marriage is the lack of communication and the self centeredness of both parties---both doing their own thing and never compromising to anything!
If that doesn't work---communicate to her in the form of a dissolutions summons for divorce---have her served at work or at home!! This will communicate to her loud and clear what your intentions are.
AFter the divorce---see who you want to!! Float down the river in your sea of bliss then!
2006-12-31 23:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since you have just floated apart as you say, then I would say cut right through it and tell her that you are cheating and want to end it.
2006-12-31 23:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if there are no kids you should split
if there are kids you should try to work on the marriage - really work
not sure telling her about the cheating is the thing to do - that will only hurt her. if you want to move out then that's the news to tell her
2007-01-01 00:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor - order "50-mile Rule" by Judith Brandt!
2006-12-31 23:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. Don't do that. If you want to end the marriage, get a divorce. If you want to soothe your conscience, go to a priest and confess.
2007-01-01 00:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delicately.
2006-12-31 23:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you want to leave her.. Tell her that not need to tell her is because another woman unless you want her to hate you.
But if you want to save your marriage, then stop seeing the other woman.. Is that other woman worth it anyway? Think of that...
2007-01-01 00:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by getting_a_new_life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋