2006-12-31 23:01:01 · 7 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry... supose to be up not us!
2006-12-31 23:02:11 · update #1
Just be there for her. Try to maybe get her mind occupied on something more pleasant. Divorces can be hard to deal with.
This will be a long term thing for her, but being their for her and helping her through all the emotions she will be experiencing is the best thing you can do.
Perhaps go to a movie, out to dinner, or talk about some good times you have shared with her. Above all else don't dwell on the bad times.
2006-12-31 23:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by michellebanks1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really feel for your mum as this time last year l nearly went through the same thing. Fortunately my husband and myself are now working on our problems but l know the feelings your mum is going through and it hurts like hell. Be there for her, be her rock. My daughter was there for me every step of the way and it really helped knowing that l could discuss everything with her and l had her full support. It really helped to know that l had someone on my side as going through a divorce is a terribly place to be in and very lonely, she will need all the love and support you can give her. Just be the most caring person you can be and it will certainly give your mum the strength she will need to get through this. Best of luck and have a very Happy New Year.
2007-01-01 07:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her and take her flowers and spoil her because a divorce is a terrible ordeal, a betrayal and heart breaking. She feels lost, wounded, broken and angry. SHe needs help too, but accept that this can go on for a long time and frustrating as it will become, she needs you all. MAybe with time dad will change his mind, but regardless dont take sides if you can help it. Also remember none of this is your fault. What happened was there was no love and no respect in their relationship. She wiont want to do anything right now but in time get her help. SHe needs counselling badly.
2007-01-01 08:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi - it must be tough but its good you really care. Just be helpful and try to make her life easier. Maybe she should get some counselling to help her make the transition - that would take the pressure off you and she would have a neutral outlet to vent and process her emotions and thoughts around the divorce.
2007-01-01 07:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by goodcompanypls 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could try getting the family together for a talk about whats been happening or ( excluding the one their divorcing ) maybe doing something new. new year , new start
2007-01-01 07:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by babiboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a good loving daughter, ask her is there anything she wants you to do. Maybe go to the cinema together, make her tea that sort of thing may help - she is lucky to have you help her through this
2007-01-01 07:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
find her a boyfriend
2007-01-01 07:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋