I am straight...but after I saw someone (female) with breasts and sexy bodies, bra....I start going online checking nude stuff of women. Is this normal? Cause maybe..I wanna end up back to straight again...
2006-12-31 22:08:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you need to think of it like this - instead of everyone being either 'gay' or 'straight', it's like a scale. one end is only liking guys,the other only liking girls. and everyone is somewhere on that scale, but almost no one is right at one end. as much as people tell you theyre completely straight, theyre almost definately lying.
so, on that scale, you're probably nearest the guys end but just slightly towards the girls end. and thats ok. you are still young and need time to work out your sexuality.
please try not to worry about this!
you can always email me if you want to talk!
xxx
2006-12-31 23:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by Emma :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic! ;-)
Many woman are interested in other women's bodies. Most of the time, it is 100% total curiosity and not actually anything sexual. Many of us are interested in the female form (female nudity in photography is always done so much more artistic than male nudity!).
Can you imagine having a sexual relationship with a woman? Realistically? Having a girlfriend, having a woman as your life partner, sharing intimate moments etc? If so, then you gotta do what you gotta do! There's nothing wrong with being a lesbian!
Why do WANT to be straight? Because society tells you or because deep down, it's actually men you have the real desire for? If this is so, then perhaps you are just mentally/sexually experimenting with your feelings at the moment, and really are straight, or just bi-sexual.
Do you check other girls out regularly? More so than men? Can you imagine french-kissing them, doing other things etc?
Fantasies are fantasies because we realistically would not do them in real life.
Good luck with everything :-) Remember to be true to who you are + get the necessary support and contacts if you feel you are gay.
2006-12-31 22:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by midsojo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 07:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe set up your computor with perental controls, as for the passward just type random things so u will forget it... that way there will be be no way to look at it on line, then do the same with your television. if after doing this you find a stronger need to see it (knowing that you cant) then maybe experimant with a girl... if you really like it then stick with it if not or if at all u felt awkward in doing this then you should meet a good guy and stick with him... but u can always change your mind... you may not be happy in life tho always jumping back in forth but just know that once you make a disicion on sexual preference its not permanint hope i helped you
2007-01-01 02:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by elf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling the pressure of labels. Really don't worry about labels. Just be yourself, who you truly are. Sexuality is not black and white. It is a lot of gray area. Everyone falls on a scale of 1 to 10. 1 being the most straight and 10 being the most gay, and the middle being equally attracted to both genders emotionally and physically. Some can be attracted to the same gender only physically while some only feel emotional attraction. A woman may feel only physically attracted to men and feel emotionally and physically attracted to women, vice versa. Everyone is different in their preference. There are some straight married women who would have sex with women purely for physical reasons and is very much in love with her man. Or there are some who don't care what gender they fall in love, only that they are in love with the person.
Really this is not something you can instantly understand about yourself overnight. It took me a couple of years to really understand who I am. My relationships and experiences taught me more about what makes me the most happiest and most comfortable.
How you find out who you are is through your relationships and experiences. You do not need to feel pressured to prematurely label yourself for the satisfaction of others. It's really nobody's business who you love or who you feel attracted to. That's for yourself to define, not other people. If someone askes you, it's okay to say that you still don't know. There is nothing wrong with that. We don't always know who we are. Life is about discovering who we are. So just feel comfortable with exploring yourself and find out who you are.
2007-01-01 11:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Amma's Child 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. You can still be straight but enjoy other women's bodies. For example, my girlfriend is a lesbian but she enjoys men in porn, I don't quite understand it but she would never have sex with any guy. I hope this makes sense, but whatever you decide to do with your life it is okay no matter what people say.
2006-12-31 22:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by metalicpenguins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not turning in to a lesbian. A woman's body are a beautiful thing. And another woman can apreciate it with out being a lesbian. Why do you think when they advertise woman's clothing they use models with stunning looks? Beacuse its appealing to other woman.
You should't worry about that.. it really is normal.
2006-12-31 22:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by Clio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're young and unsure of your sexuality. Many people are in the same situation. It just takes time to figure things out. Eventually you'll know your sexuality. Just give it time, enjoy the ride, and be safe.
2007-01-01 12:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You also have a female sexy body , go to the mirror you will see more beautiful body, it is normal.
2006-12-31 22:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by abotraka777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal but once you go out with one and once you find a girl that makes you more happy than a guy can.. it's hard to go back...
2006-12-31 23:11:39 · answer #10 · answered by hi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋