i dont understand this "abuser" nonsense. What is this interference all about?

Answer 1

an abuser is anyone who takes advantage of another causing the abused to be hurt either physically or mentally or emotionally. whenever you put someone down either by words or by force and the other person is unable to protect her or himself, that is abuse. it is a person who takes advantage of the weakness of others, either physical, mental or emotional weakness.

an example would be hurting someone because you can. or calling someone names and critisizing them when you know that is an insult that hurts them the most like calling someone a pig, or stupid, etc. and the reaction of the abuser is getting pleasure from the pain of the other, enjoying the fact that he has control of the other person. kinda like nero watching the christians burn and he playing his feedle and enjoying the scene. nero was not well mentally so.......

you have to realize that everyone is not equal. some people are strong and some are weaker. that does not give the strong the right to take advantage of those weaker. his role as the strong is to protect the weak. that is his role in the world.

in many situations, a person covers up his weakness by physically taking advantage of another to cover up their insecurities and feeling of low self worth which we call "low self esteem". the abuser is hiding his deficiencies by covering it up with abuse on others. sometimes, this is a learned thing..... a child sees his father abuse his mother and grows up with this attitude. this can be a mental sickness due to upbringing.

most abusers are also cowards. they abuse those who are unable to protect themselves like children and those weaker than them. but are totally scared of anyone who can stand up to them. they then become afraid and becomes the weak one.

most abusers have been abused in the past by parents, family members, etc. they are reacting to their past experience and need some kind of realization that now they have become exactly like those who used to abuse them. they have exchanged places and have taken the identity of that individual who used to abuse them. it is a psychological and mental disorder that can be cured by medical help and medication.

Answer 2

Abuse? NONSENSE? Have you experienced abuse yourself? How can that even be question of inference?
Most woman who experience abuse are to ashamed to tell anyone,
Abuse doesn't have to singular to hitting, pushing, shoving,or rape.
Abuse begins with verbal insults, put downs, false accusations, control. Invisible scars, unseen to anyone on the outside, except perhaps by others who recognize the signs themselves, because they too are being tormented. There IS ALWAYS physical abuse that follows in the shadows of those who are being abused by the spouses or significant other. I have lived with an verbally and physically abusive man for 30 years. And I am finally letting the dirty little secrets out, humiliating? yes, to long in coming? yes. Only the victim can decide when it all needs to end, and with professional help can she overcome this sadistic behavior, wouldn't you agree? Abuse is nit to be taken lightly.

Answer 3

Abuser nonsense????? If someone is mistreating someone else, hitting, raping, insulting. That's abuse. It's not nonsense. If you are the person doing any of the above, grow up and stop. Your wrong. Remember, love is caring and should be used to lift up and help the one that you love. Not tear them down. Good luck and pray to God for your answer.

Answer 4

number one it is not nonsense its a very real and present danger for the person who is being abused often they are so scared and terrified they don't know who to trust its a very sad situation. obviously either you wear sunglasses but abuse does and can happen right under your nose. theres no nonsense about it its serious and many people die each year from abuse and that includes children. you need to open your eyes dear.

Answer 5

Whats not to understand? The definition is in simple terms- The maltreatment ,physical,mental or sexual of a person. The only nonsense is in one's own ignorance.