i have a so called friend who ive knowen for 3years,she blanks calls if she is feelin down off wizz she is moody n is unreliable! i help her out n always give her things like furniture ect n she still nasty??? n is sayin ive now changed
2006-12-31 21:31:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Perhaps you ouight to tell her how you feel.
Say that if she does not wish to continue the friendship that you are prepared to move on, but that she needs to make up her mind.
It is always best (though sometimes painful) to be honest....but, please, do it kindly. (Your question suggests that you are the sort of person who would anyway)
2006-12-31 21:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After being so nice to her and giving her stuff and she has the nerve to judge you? How is it that you have put up with this for so long? No wonder you've changed. Can't see that you've gotten anything good out of this arrangement except grinding your teeth. You got to realize that this is coming to a head and you'll be forced to put her aside. It won't be your fault and you shouldn't feel guilty. Give yourself some room and give her the air before she puts you over the edge and you end up really hating her-and yourself. Not worth it!
2006-12-31 22:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would set some boundaries. You don't have to cut all ties with her, but I wouldn't give her anything else. If she isn't there when you need her, tell her it feels like the friendship is one sided (you giving all the time). I would put a little distance & see what the reaction is. If she is your friend I think she will come around & understand & if she isn't then it is good for you to find that out.
2006-12-31 21:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by BSTER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 12:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing a few months ago, and its really confusing. what i did was just leave her alone for a while, then see if she picks the friendship up again. I would call her once a week just to check in, but only a 5min phone call.Then c if that helps!!
2006-12-31 21:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to keep some one who is doing "billy"-(in fact who is doing ANY type of drugs)-at arm's length. You do not need this "billy induced" nastiness in your life, so cut out the benevolence, toughen up within yourself and let HER do the running to YOU for a change...otherwise your friendship will not get any better-and could possibly get a whole lot worse. You do not need this.
2006-12-31 22:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your being a better friend to her than she is to you. Friendship is not ment to be hard and confusing. You need to meet another friend and start steering clear of this so called friend. I know you know this already you seem to need to know that others see it the same way. God Bless and You will find another friend that will be equaly as good to you as you are to them.
2006-12-31 21:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by lovie12346 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a true friend would say sorry, if they knew they where being nasty. sit her down and have a ftrank talk with her. she needs to be to told, she is annoying you. as a friend she needs to be told, she may be treating other people the same. if she denies it, then she has a thing for you.
2007-01-01 02:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by rjhamuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wizz? you mean fet or sumet? oh anyways just leave her to it! sounds like a bit off a pain, not a mate!!
2006-12-31 21:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by red devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe she is not your friend and you will be better off finding another one. She is not a good/suitable one anyway. All the best!
2006-12-31 21:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋