Okay so, I'm a bi male, and i've recently decided i like guys better, and have had several flings with guys BUT none of them ever actually thought of me as relationship material and never took me seriously, but they would be willing to have sex with me all the time...which kinda bothered me, i couldnt figure that out until one of my friends told me its because of the way i look. I'm tan and have platinum bleached blonde hair, and i wear bright blue contacts (i have vision problems, its not JUST to color my eyes lol) and have my tongue pierced. Now i've heard in the straight community, guys who see a GIRL that has all that as just a peice of a$$, but is it the same way with boy/boy? Cause my friend seems to think of it like that, but im not quite sure if its the same type of thing? So im asking if gay or bi guys who see another boy who looks like that, as just sex? LMAO i know this is a weird question but i wanna know if thats what the reason is...?
2006-12-31 21:07:47 · 9 answers · asked by BlondBoy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It all depends on the guy. I think you sound cute. But guys think I just want sex too and I'm totally different than you. I'm a straight laced jean/shirt guy. Think its something about personality, not looks. But I cant figure it out.
2006-12-31 21:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it comes down to the quality of a person. Perhaps it is a better quality of a person that has a heart rather than a hard on. Your description is hot sounding. Guys like to have sex and you are in a lifestyle for it on both sides. Start looking for someone who is Mr right instead of Mr right now. It's not really a weird question, rather one that defines a need for you to be emotionally as well as physically safe. Good Luck
2007-01-01 01:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by punxsyparty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i used to feel the same way
except the fact i was ugly as a guy
every time i went to the beats and that i would be treted like a piece of meat
i depends on what you want to be
if you are gay just to geet a head/hand job or more then be that way
but if you are the sort of man that wants a relationship with a man
look harder as they are there just not right in front of you
i made a rule for my self i think might help you
if you want a relationship never do any thing sexual on the first date
as if they do it with you they will only do it with two
so ask your self is it fun you want or love you want
and find away to get what you want
2006-12-31 21:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are probably considered shallow and an object, one to have sex with but nothing more. I make that assumption based on the things you said about being bi and all. Seems to me very non-committal, and sounds sexy so that wouldn't be a problem, I know I wouldn't want to take it any further with a bi guy.
2006-12-31 21:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe you just haven't met the right guy yet. I'm sure you'll find a guy who'll love you the way you are. I'd love to have a relationship with you if you weren't so far away. I'm from Malaysia.
2006-12-31 22:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by renaudldw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys just want sex. If you're asking that you should change your appearance in order to catch the right guy...don't bother, the right guy won't stop with your looks.
2007-01-01 06:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've just got to meet a guy you get along with enough to make it long term.
Don't try and 'make' people have long term relationships (or even friendships) with you.
You can't force something people don't want to give.
You sound pretty cute to me, just chill out, meet some guys and enjoy yourself.
2007-01-01 00:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by psychedelic_fighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i would want a relationship (if he wanted it as well, and no, it's not cause of the eye color). I feel that my life is passing so fast i can't wait for those who want to waste it.
2006-12-31 22:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the grounds that he knows your gay... he would desire to make the 1st flow... next time he gazing you: basically variety of enable him comprehend you're involved via winking at him or smacking your lips or something...
2016-10-19 07:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋