A lot of the time
it is a mistake TO speak when we're angry !!
Almost anything that comes out of us at that time has a tendency to be confrontational and harsh !!
Now, don't get me wrong here-- there ARE those times that it is the only thing to do---speak our minds --even when we ARE angry -- the art comes in knowing when that time is right and when to keep one's mouth shut !!!
2006-12-31 20:39:48
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answered by Anonymous
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Hello, and perhaps your parents can help you with this question/problem.
Take your writing, for example: "Do YOU know how not to make mistakes?" This is your question - it contains a mistake.
"Mistakes when YOU speak, ESPECIALLY when YOU are angry."
There are three more mistakes here.
We all make mistakes (yes, I do too) when speaking and writing.
Yes, you do have to think before you speak, and listen to what you have said after. Try saying less when you are angry. I hope this helps you.
2007-01-01 04:43:07
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answered by WMD 7
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Before you speak a sentence, spend the time anticipating what response your sentence will elicit.
Speaking in a conversation can be viewed as playing a game of checkers, chess or any other board game.
You want to anticipate the other person's next move in these games and the same applies to conversations.
Many comments are very simple and the other person's responses can be considered quickly, but in the art of delicate negotiation, every sentence needs to be measured for no mistakes.
Remember this rule of life, "No one learns anything while speaking. You only learn new things while listening (and reading)."
Make the attempt to cut your answers to no more than four sentences when you talk. You are less likely to hang yourself.
2007-01-01 10:02:23
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answered by bird_brain_88 3
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it depends on what words ur speaking to the person ur angry at & in what case u have to say it. coz sometimes, harsh words could make a lesson to the person ur speaking w/. in return, it is not a mistake, rather, he/she learn his/her mistakes.
2007-01-01 06:09:27
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answered by Anonymous
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well u have to think before u do or say somthing to prevent mistakes or try to calm down then try to speak n think !!
good luck in life!
2007-01-01 04:33:06
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answered by Anonymous
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welll read a dictionary .. haha kiddding loll you sound as if you cant speak at all that well.. not sounding rude i dunno.. think and dont scream at everyone the first thing that comes into your head espeshally if your angry cause thats when you dont mean it and dont think your just focusing on hurting them and winiing the 'war' but yea thinkk =] and yea good luckkk xx
2007-01-01 04:40:02
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answered by Anonymous
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Chill pills!
2007-01-01 04:33:26
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answered by Anonymous
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think b4 u speak....if u cant, then think abt the consequences which u`l go thru afterwards!!!!
Good luck....
2007-01-01 04:35:30
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answered by Momma of Esa 05/03/10 3
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