Okay, Well this girl named Aisha and me met eachother and we became friends....just friends. For only so long. After awhile, I noticed that I started to hate her because she made my life miserable! I had to do stuff for her, and she THOUGHT she was popular and I did'nt really like her at all. And so, I kind of 'dumped' her. And she threatened to beat me up. I was'nt so scared because I'm a black belt in Tae Kwon Do. Then I met this girl who USED to be friends with Aisha. She did'nt like Aisha either. But before I met that girl, I decided to become friends with Aisha again (because I was fairly stupid at the time and I thought that maybe it would work out) and guess what? Another fight. So I tried to get out of being her friend again. SHE CALLED ME HER BEST FRIEND. And I was NOT! I dumped her immediately. And she got mad! She called me names and kept asking q's over and over again. She said that I made her unhappy and It's ALL MY FAULT! IF I DON'T WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER...
2006-12-31 20:20:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
IF I DON'T WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER, THAN THAT'S MY CHOICE!!!! SHE SHOULD JUST DEAL WITH IT!! AM I RIGHT? I MEAN, NOBODY LIKES HER... WHY DO I HAVE TO? I DON'T EVEN LIKE HER. THIS IS'NT MY FAULT AND I AM NOT, REPEAT, AM NOT APOLOGIZING FOR ALL THE TROUBLE SHE'S CAUSED ME. Is it so wrong that I just don't want to be friends anymore? She LIES to be all the time and she thinks I'm stupid because I fall for it everytime. Well, I did'nt fall for it and I started getting more suspicious. That's when she asked me, "We are still friends right?" . I don't like her. I don't like her. I don't like her!
2006-12-31 20:23:38 · update #1
I already told her my i dumped her. and she just kept asking me the same question, "are we friends?" and i keep saying, "no" or "i don't know"
2007-01-01 14:55:27 · update #2
Okey, first of all take a deep breath and calm down.
Listen she is taking advantage of you. I see no point in having a friendship when theres no respect for each other.
Its most definitely not your fault....get away from her and find yourself other friends. I think you deserve better.
Lets hope her eyes will open one day.
Good luck!!
2006-12-31 21:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like anyone's "fault"! Sounds like you just don't want to be friends with this girl. And from what you said about her lying to you and stuff I wouldn't either! But It is a little weird that she would still be bugging you even though you told her you don't want to be friends anymore. Maybe she has some kinda mental problem, or it could just be she is REALLY immature. Either way it is best for you to just ignore her and don't fall into her traps anymore. Don't answer her phone calls and if you see her out don't even bother to fight with her or acknowledge her at all. Just ignore her, whatever she might say, Good Luck.
2007-01-01 04:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well It is a very straight question and should be given a straight answer.
my friend u know sometimes
we come accross some people
who seem nice to us
and thus chose them to be friends
but after passage of time
when get to know each other
u feel that the person is not your type
This is the case with u
Allthough there is one more thing
to remember that if she had ever
helped u in some problem when
u were running out of help
then u should consider it one more time.
but no relationship can survive
if one person dislikes other or mismatches.....
SO U CAN SAY GOODBYE
TO HER AND LIVE UR LIFE THE WAY U USED TO......
2007-01-01 04:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by nextgenerationy2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just "dumping" her is really immature, and not the best idea. She won't understand why you are being such a jerk to her. You should try talking to her about why she's pissing you off. Tell her "it really bothers me when you take advantage of me. I'm not your slave you know, and friends dont' treat eachother like that" if she's still horrible to you, then TELL HER that you don't consider her a friend anymore, and if she's willing to start treating you decently then give you a call, but until then leave you alone.
2007-01-01 04:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you actually tell her to her face that you don't want to be friends. Maybe if she knows what she is doing to make people not like her, she could try to work on that and have some friends in the future. You're not helping by just dumping her.
2007-01-01 04:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by coutterhill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if you dont want to be around cant stand her then you did the right thing
she sounds like a pain in the @$$
so what if she is unhappy that's her problem
happiness comes from within
one does not need others to be happy
you might have been friends with her because you felt sorry for her that she did not have friends
before she expects others to be a friend before she expects to have friends she needs to learn to be a friend herself
threatening calling names blaming another person is not being a friend
that's not the thing to do for people to like you or to keep/have a friend
you did the right thing
no regrets
2007-01-01 04:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by niffirg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey getting screwed up for some people to whom which doesn't like you or you don't like is not a good thing for you. learn to accept each limitations and respect each other. having a bull fight or arguement is not a good solution for both of you. best thing you should do is talk to her and be open minded to her comments about you learn to accept what she will tell you so that you know where to move on and change, and pray that same thing will happen to her. RESPECT AND LOVE IS THE KEY TO A LASTING RELATIONSHIP. God bless you
2007-01-01 05:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by KRISTOFFER D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like a friendship from hell. Ignore her, do not answer phone, email or anything. Delete her out of your memory and go on with your own life. It is no ones fault, it just was not meant to be. She needs to do the same thing. she may not, so you have to stop it now. Forget her.
2007-01-01 04:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that u have a big problem here. There is no way this girl is gonna be gotten rid of, so u should talk to ur other mates and ask fpor their help. If this girl is causing u misery she isn't ur friend
2007-01-01 04:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by Rosa_evil_twin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is your fault for not stetting her straight! you enabled her to get as far as she did! Just be blunt,, tell her you have enough time to have multiple friends in your life and if she can not deal with that then she may as well move on!
2007-01-01 04:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋