I don't know is that love? he and me just a friend, but we can tell every secret each other athough we didn't often contact or talk so much together, when I say with him I speak freely, but I think it just a friend, I don't love him. But when he go another place (another country), I can't describe my felling, but I know I am unhappy and worry to him for how can he stay in another country.
I think I am so stupid because I don't know my felling. Pls advice me.
2006-12-31 20:12:26 · 8 answers · asked by blue sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you are in love with him, if you feel like that about him. you should tell him how you feel.
2006-12-31 20:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by joker 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, your problem seems difficult to solve. But let me try to solve your problem. In this situation you have to wait some time and observe. You have to observe if he is showing some interest in you? If yes, you can probably go ahead. I don’t know how old is your friendship. But it can be attraction (toward his looks, style, fashion statement, etc.) or infatuation (obsession, passion, craze, etc.) or just a crush (kind of liking for the person). The time will only tell you. Like you will get some kind of hint or a clue. Here you will come to know that “yes, I love him”. Just try to concentrate on some other things for some days like reading, chatting, drawing, cleaning, whatever. After some days say a week later, observe and examine your self. Have you got distracted from his thoughts or those feelings? If “NO”, then you are in love. Now you have to decide what next? Best luck!!!
2007-01-01 05:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by magnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the only one who can know how you really feel about him. Sorry, but typing a brief description online isn't likely to lead you anywhere you haven't already tread in your analysis while trying to decipher your feelings. They're your feelings. Be honest with yourself and give it time. Don't rush into anything and I'm sure you'll figure it out eventually :)
What I can say by what you've written is that you definately do love him...now you just have to figure out whether you're *in love* with him. Best of luck!
2007-01-01 04:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by abby j 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U are clearly in love with him.
Other signs of love:
Been mates or a long time
Heart beats faster when u see him
You blush a lot round him
2007-01-01 04:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by Rosa_evil_twin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THE FACT THAT YOU WORRY ABOUT HIM IS JUST THAT YOU WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIM CAUSE HE'S AWAY & YOU FEEL KINDA EMPTY & THAT YOU'RE USED TO HAVING HIM TO SHARE SECRETS WITH & HE'S TRUSTWORTHY & U CONSIDER HIM AS A REALLY CLOSE FRIEND U EVEN SAID YOU DON'T LOVE HIM SO I GUESS U REALLY DONT. CAUSE IF YOU DID LOVE HIM? TRUST ME YOU WOULD KNOW WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WOULDNT BE CONFUSED CAUSE WHEN YOU'RE IN LOVE YOU'RE DIFFERENT
2007-01-01 04:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like either really good friends or in love. Try sayin I love you and see what happens
2007-01-01 04:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by f00tball77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur very close friend or begining to love him!!!!
as someone told here u try to tell him that u hav these kinda feelings towards him
he might respond and tell u whether its love or friendship!!!
2007-01-01 04:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ultimate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well dear your in the first steps of falling inlove with someone
2007-01-01 04:16:34 · answer #8 · answered by warlord_chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋