keep it that way?
2006-12-31 20:09:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife and I are very happy and have a great relationship. First of all, we are best friends. We enjoy being together and I'd rather do things together with her than with anyone else really. We both work at the relationship on a daily basis by treating each other with love and respect. We have complete trust in each other which is something I've never had with anyone else before. We talk about everything and when times get rough we turn to each other for support. We are both very commited to the relationship and our life together. It's nice to be happily married to your best friend!
2006-12-31 20:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Okay, I will be honest. I'm not really married, but i've been with my boyfriend for five years and sometimes it feels like we're married. We have a good relationship because it is based on trust and respect and we show we appreciate eachother through small gestures. He tells me he loves me almost every day and whenever I feel angry or upset, i remember that. You just need to know that you would be more miserable apart, so if you're happier together, what is there to argue about?
2006-12-31 20:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I emotionally didn't give my husband emotional needs. I rejected him, pushed him away and distanced myself from him. I did this afraid I was going to be hurt like my mom. You can't change your childhood, but learn from your mistakes and move on. We are separated and it took this for me to face reality, get real, go to counseling, and leave the past behind and get rid of my destructive behavior. It may be too late, at least I came to this realization before children were involved. Marriage is work, I wasn't willing to admit to my problems for a couple of years and my husband suffered and is too scared to continue this relationship even with my new found path. If you can't learn from your mistakes, learn from others and hopefully you will lead a great and everlasting marriage with your spouse. Walk through life with God and God will guide you through your lives together.
2006-12-31 20:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my husband and I have a solid relationship and mostly it is pure hard work ... We have to learn to compromise and that is the hardest part for me and my husband because we are both the youngest in our familly and the truth is we both have been spoiled by our parents and our older siblings...I guess we make it work by trust and mutual repect and no infidelity on each other.. We make a pact that we have two nights for each other doing whatever we do when we were dating...
2006-12-31 20:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overall, I am blessed with my relationship. The only problem is that I live in constant fear that this happiness might end some day.
2006-12-31 20:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to cblockcentral.com click on the resource button, and they got a gang load of stuff on helping relationships. (good or bad)
2006-12-31 20:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by bonnie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single beds, with hers preferrably in another State....lol
2006-12-31 20:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
if we went our seperate ways.
we could keep it this way if we seperated and kept away from each other.
2006-12-31 20:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋