Changing your life?

Question

What do you do when you start to regret yourself or your life? When your just sick of the way things are or turned out. What are the steps to correcting or changing your life.

Answer 1

The problem has come because of our not understanding what is life and not acting to the true meaning of it. So for changing the life we have to understand what is really life. Then I feel the problems can be solved.

So now what is LIFE-

Life – it has a meaning and loving purpose - you just have to find your purpose and live it.

I believe every person is here for a definite purpose. Each person is special and valuable; that refers to me, you, your family, friends, in fact everybody! There is a loving plan for each of our lives here on earth and there is no such thing as coincidence. I don't believe that anything in life happens by chance and that every aspect of our lives points to something deeper.

You need to decide now to live for God rather than for yourself. You spend your life on Earth preparing yourself (as best you can) for death. I don't see death as a scary, negative experience, but birth into a bliss filled eternal life with God. I believe that this is something you have to consciously choose or not during your life on earth.

The meaning of life is for us to discover that we are true children of an infinitely loving and merciful God, to find out what our responsibilities are to our Creator, and to fulfill those responsibilities. Each of us is called to affirm, accept and develop the talents God has given us. -

Answer 2

Take note not to regret, that is a defeatest, and very pesimistic. You need to take an optimistic approach to make an effective change in life. Nothing good comes from a negative approach.
You must realize the good you have done and continue to think of the future and the good you will do then. Make a list of goals after soul searching. Try not to be emotional about your decisions balance your mind and feelings as one with always mind over matter. You can do this and you must believe you will do this. Man will or he wont, not he can or cant those are excuses. Look straight forward and smile because tomorrow will be better because you will make that change for the better. Happy New Year

Answer 3

I think the best way is to make a major change! and start going back to the roots of the problems and what made you start going the wrong way... sometimes you have to get far from some people that have major roles in your life.. also you may have to change your attitude and be more cautious about things and always before stepping into something you have to get ready for the worst case scenario.... dont take any risks for accomplishing things... just go the easy long way instead of the hard short way! be very cautious about choosing the people to be around... and dont live by the moment think about whats happening next... sometimes you have to learn from your mistakes...

Answer 4

That's it. You got it. Take steps to change your life.

See - you don't need to regret yourself or your life - just start taking those steps that you mentioned in your question. See you have the answer - only you!

Good luck!

Answer 5

Changing life is one of the major most tasks. All major tasks begin with some small steps to be taken. I believe that the first small step in your case could well be a New Year Resolution to stop saying or using negative words ... you will be surprised at the goodwill this simple step would generate for you.... within as well as around yourself!!

Answer 6

The biggest mistake that we all make is Expectation from life. If the expectation matches our capacity, to achieve what we expect, we seem somewhat satisfied. But peer pressure and desires makes us over expect and the result, naturally, falls way short of this. We feel cheated and we regret.

I think we should be honest to ourselves and expect what we deserve. We should be content with that and anything more is a bonus.

Many of us make the mistake of setting goals far in excess of our reach. In 2007 we can try to keep that main goal same but make small achievable goals that would ultimately lead to the major goal. This "intermediate goal" concept is self actualising.

More importantly know thyself. Ask yourself what is creating this unhappiness within you. Catch that quickly. Then you can try for increased self esteem.

Answer 7

Make long term and short term goals and follow through with them. Write down on paper good qualities about yourself then write down things you need to work on and change about yourself. Read over what you wrote about things you need to change. Ask yourself what can i do. Thats how you take steps toward changing your life.

Answer 8

Feed yourself with positive thoughts, people, activities. What you are going through will pass. Once you believe in yourself, life and infinite possibilities (yes it happens) then you're really on a role.

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Good luck!!!!

Answer 9

slowly change what you don't like. you start with looking at yourself and you look at the traits you like and dislike. you develop the side you already have and slowly put into your systems the traits you want to have. and for the traits you dislike slowly take them away from your daily activities. it wont be easy and it would surely take time but sooner or later it will go away. you just have to stick to your goal... and of course a little bit of patience wont hurt.

Answer 10

Listen to Tony Robbins