Well, my so called "best friend" and I just spradically ended our friendship-I tired to make it work, but when I saw she wasn't putting effort-I too stopped trying-I wasn't going to haul as s for nothing. So, I truly belive there is no such thing as "best friends"-since in a min. they can become your worst enemies-these are people you never ; ever thought could betray you. Any who, so I only belive in true friends-and yes, they are hard to find, and so far I am very lucky to have some who I feel are in the same page as I, and our friendship will only keep growing, and I hope to God, these are my long life friends-they are why I wake up and smile to God. So, what is your opinion on labeling friendship; BFF or just keeping it friends*?
2006-12-31 19:31:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i st opted believing in best friends for a couple of years ago. yes i believe in true friends but i keep some secretes just for myself. i have said this one time and i am going to say it again. you are your best friend because you are the only one that really knows the real you, you can keep a secret that is your own better than a best friends will ever keep.... because is your secret.
friends come and they eventually go after your relationship will end...after you have said all your secretes and of course you grow up. you want new friends....
2006-12-31 23:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I like all of my friends equally i would never pick one or the other. So yeah im with U on that . I don't have a best friend just a lot of great friends. It would feel wrong 2 me to favor 1 of my friends over the others.Unless you wants 2 say that all of your friends are your best friends which would essentialy be the same.
2007-01-01 03:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by nobody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I have best friends... but they are true friends as well.
Number One- I've never faught with her whole life.
The Second, we had one fight, kicked the mans a** and haven't let men in between us since, including her husband
The Third- I still refer to as my best friend, cuz I hold her close to my heart, even though she chose her husband over me
The Fourth - Always stood by me, even when I tried to kill him
& My newest best friend - My man, I hope will always be together, but if not, I will know, that even sane people think like me.
I don't know hun, I don't believe someone you truely love and care for, your "friends" can become your enemies. They are only what you make them. If they betray you, fine, but you must forgive them, even when they can't forgive you. Remember that makes you stronger.
2007-01-01 03:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in a nasty highway car accident, my BEST friend flew from Vancouver to see me. She was here (Toronto) the very next day, took the rest of the week off work. I had my sisters, brothers and parents with me. I have a very close, very large supportive family. Some of my siblings could also be called my best friends, but they are stuck with me, they are, after all siblings.
I told her I was fine and miraculously managed to make it out without a problem. I gave her no indication that I needed her to come down and I didn't expect to see her on my doorstep when she showed up. She told me that she told work she was leaving immediately because her "best friend was in an accident and there was no way in hell she wasn't coming down". I felt so happy to see her.
The year she was marrying in Vancouver, my 8 year relationship ended with this guy and I had just quit my job and ended up being nursed by my family for a few weeks. My brothers played cards with me while I soaked decks with tears. When I went to bed, it was my best friend I would call. She not only spoke to me long distance for hours on end, but told me to come down at any time and that she had a place for me and when she wasn't home, she insisted her husband (who I love now but didn't know then) talk to me even if she wasn't home. I was a complete mess, and I was NEVER a mess. I returned the favour to her when she was going through a horrendous break up in Vancouver before her meeting her husband. I told her to come down and move in and I meant it, even though I lived in a one bedroom basement apartment with the now ex. Anyway, within months I was scrambling to get myself together find a job, just to fly out there. I found a job week before her wedding, asked my dad for a loan, told him I would pay him back with my first paycheck, started the job on a Thursday and flew out there on Friday night to watch her walk down the aisle and return on Sunday. I was still so down until I saw her marrying her husband. Her happiness made me happy and that is the truth. We are both very happy today and this is merely a tidbit of what we have been through together. She knows the absolute worst of me and still manages to love me. Family love you unconditionally, but they can be so critical. Your friends can walk away at any time but choose not to. I have loads of friends, loads. They are terrific. I like them a heck of a lot and would do lots for them...but I would do just about anything for my best friend. It doesn't matter if I live on the other side of the country....we text, we email, we talk on the phone, we plan our annual trip! She is the first person I call when I have a REAL problem. She can't go for coffee with me all the time now, but even when she could, she was the first person I wanted beside me to share in my glory or misery. I am now in my early thirties and I feel really good. I like my job, I take classes, I take chances, I like my meat, I am southern European and Christian, I fly by the seat of my pants, I like to try new things, probably relatively louder, sometimes explosive. She is a vegetarian, makes her own 'everything', lives a laid back calm lifestyle, she is an agnostic, comes from a small, polite, British background. Her place is impeccable. Most people look at us and think that she is reserved and I am outgoing. They don't know us and they have no idea who we are. When we are together we can still see those two girls that met at the start of highschool, but we can also amaze ourselves in how far we've come. I have loads of old and new friends I adore....but we are each others favourite old sweaters. We are still pretty young, but wise enough to know that there are best friends for the lucky few.
2007-01-01 13:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-01 03:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dont believe in having one "Best" friend. I also believe in true friends. Friends that will be there to support you and be by your side no matter what!
2007-01-01 03:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
true friend's r rare to get but if v get we r very lucky& even i believe in true friendship.
2007-01-01 04:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by sukeshrocks6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends are like the stars in the sky. You can't always see them, but you know they are there.
2007-01-01 03:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by mom of 3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i am half half, i believe in true friends more than i believe in best friends but i have a best friend and she really is a true friend.
That really did not make sense but it makes sense to me.
2007-01-01 04:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trustworthy friends are what I always go for I agree with you NO "best" friends. It is better that way
2007-01-01 03:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by 1-4-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋