Can two Cancers make a relationship work, or are they too similar?

Question

We're working at it, but if the relationship isn't in the stars, then it's destined to be bad. The day I met this guy my tarot cards also did a complete 180 from "this person is completely wrong for you" (referring to the guy I was slightly dating) to "you've met an amazing person".

Answer 1

I have known Cancer couples...and they tend to work well together. You will have to be aware of your weaknesses in the relationship, as Cancers tend to be defensive, insecure, needy, and obsessed with making sure they each get everything they're entitled to. You're also likely to have money issues, both unwilling to trust the other with the money. But if you are aware of these things and manage to talk them over I think you'll be fine.

Answer 2

Cancer With Cancer:
They both take words and actions to be literal truths and that can mean some consistent pain and unrest for them. They tend to see themselves as martyrs, vastly giving individuals, and when one does not see this in the other then the reaction is shock. They will waste a lot of time together, better spent on other things, in the middle of petty bickering and dredging up the past mistakes of the other. First thing you need to do is get a manual that tells you who goes first and on what night. Otherwise you are both going to just sit there and wonder. How "did" you two manage to get together anyway? Whose initiative was it and will he or she call again? A movie that needs a director! And by the way, try to avoid those emotional scenes, unless you really are acting.

Cancer's Spiritual Goal is to learn how to take a balanced view of things.

Two Cancers in the Same Family
If the mutual need for security and reassurance can be satisfied, two Cancer's can get along well. Their greatest conflicts will arise when they disagree about intuitive matters. Together they can work very well at a money-making activity. The Cancerian sensitivity may result in some highly emotional moments, but as long as each person has a creative outlet, all will be well. The Cancerian sense of humor should be encouraged and will relax any stressful moments that arise from Cancerian selfishness.

I hope that will give you both some insight : )

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

cancer couples are great together
who's most likely to understand a cancerian then another cancerian. There will surely be some trouble, but if you work it out you will be a great team. You two wanting the same thing isn't a bad thing, think about it, you are not going to argue over a lot of things.

it also says in the other book:
cancer and cancer:
two people hungry for love, but with plenty to give it could be great. But feelings are likely to run high.

that's what it says in my book but don't always believe the signs trust your insticts too.
btw, im a cancer too :D goodluck

Answer 4

Yes Cancers can have a very good relationship

Answer 5

Hi!! Im a cancer and im with cancer man and living with him its been helllll! This guy thinks that he is the most cutes guy in the holde world and that people owes him everything. He inks he kows everything and every body. I am not even entitle of my own opinios. he is so moody more moody than me and he is often trying to be better then every body. He like to critisised every body and he thinks he is perfect when he is not even good looking or dosent have humilidy for nothing. Im so ready to move on. I wish I never meet him. I know from his past that all women run away from him and I been told by his exes that he is very ugly and miserable inside. He like to manipulate the woman and he never tell me that im pretty or no gestures or nothing. I though that I was a bad cancer but he is just a bad person. Im starting to think that he is gay cuz he treats woman like dirt and don't have sympathy for woman. He dosent have no feeling. very very rude and always talking about him self that he knows difrent jobs and he has never succeed on nothing. His problem is that he spend most of his time looking at others people life and how they succeed but he dosent do nothing. He is very lazy and dosent even like to care about his personal high gean vey very lazy. I ask God to illuminate me and guide me and to help me to get out of this marriage. He is the type of man that give me stuff but then takes it away when he gets mad or when I don't agree with him. RIght now I don't have the means to live him cuz I don't have a car but when ever I get the chance Im out of here. Please woman im not saying that all cancer man are the same but please get to know who is coming in the relation ship. I don't hate him but I do not love him. I ask God just to help him change his way cuz he is always goin to end up been alone cuz of his ways.

Answer 6

anything can work if you both want it to work and if you both are seriously committed in a relationship. don't get swayed by these horoscope signs. they are a good fun and leave them as it is. if you want your relationship to work, you two have to put effort into it.

Answer 7

Cancer And Cancer Relationship

Answer 8

Use your intuition. That advice can be annoying but it's usually the best answer. No pun intended. I must be sleepy.

Answer 9

If you want it to work it will..your horoscope has nothing to do with it..My husband and I have the same birthday which gives us the same horoscope and will be married 49 years in 10 days..follow your heart not your horoscope.

Answer 10

follow your heart.