Should I give up my arrogant ways and become a better husband?

Answer 1

You have just admitted you are arrogant and therefore not a good husband. I guess it depends on how much you want to save your marriage as to whether you are willing to make a change in your attitude.

Answer 2

Yes. It's a new year and time to make changes for the better. I respect you for being able to admit your arrogance...that's a step in the right direction. If you love your wife, you owe it to her and to yourself to work on making the marriage better and being a better husband is a great place to start. You obviously love this woman and have something special between you....think about that and all of the good times you've had together. Being a better husband will lead to her wanting to be a better wife and that will make for 2 happy people. I wish you all the best.

Answer 3

Hi Robert, If you define yourself as arrogant, then yes, you need to work through becoming a better husband. Do you want to not be so arrogant? How will you continue to not be so arrogant throughout your marriage instead of proving it to her for one or two months then going about your old ways. If you are in doubt, seek marriage counseling. Marriage counseling is not for failures, it's for those who are not ready for failure. Let God. Take care.

Answer 4

Why not? There's no harm in doing that; only good things will arise from giving up your arrogant ways to become a better husband!

Answer 5

how will giving up your arrogant ways make you a better husband? I think arrogance itself might not really be an issue, you are not giving something.....possibly you are emotionaly unavailable...
arrogance is you showing your self-importance and your self-worth. You say "arrogant ways" so that means that everything you are doing is suiting for your own purpose and needs. i dont think you really need to get rid of an arrogant personality, though its a turn-off, you just need to think of your wife more. And, not just think of your wife more, you need more "self-less" action.
There is a difference of an arrogant trait in your personality, and arrogance in the things you do. Dont change your personality, just quit being selfish, and "fuse" your wife into your actions.....validate her feelings, dont fire back with defense.

Answer 6

First, don't ever tell him he is a bad kid, he will just rebel more. Never get to mushy or gushy, we hate that stuff. Just be a mom and do what you're doing, but please, you have got to remember that you and your husband were raised in a different generation. Now a days us kids have the influence of many pop cultures and hip trends and media influences, most of all. I mean you seem like you're being very ignorant when it comes to that. Even if you think you know your son, how do you know all of his feelings. Maybe he says he has a lot of friends, but he's getting teased or beat up. Maybe he says he's okay, but something is worrying him inside and he doesn't want to tell you because it's to embarrassing and you would react "Aw, honey, it's okay" And you know, sorry to judge on what you might do, but the truth is you probably would do this stuff. Don't just say "We would never treat our parents like this" because every kid, EVERY KID has their moment of thinking "Oh my gosh my parents are such idiots" and then come to realize later that even though how hard you hated your parents, you always loved them. Every boy, every girl, has a heart that says "Mommy and Daddy" it just never shows anymore, does it ever at this age? No, it really doesn't. And i'm pretty sure you remember thinking when you were a teen yourself and your parents were being gerks you would never do that to your kid, but you do it to your kids now that you're an adult. Were just kids and we don't deserve to be punched and kicked and stressed and tired and depressed, and everything. 1 in 3 american teens are depressed. Just remember what I wrote

Answer 7

ofcourse, the earlier you realize that you need to become a better husband is the better. you know what? the more you hurt your wife the more she will became far away from you and later she will realize that she don't love you anymore. you know what a wife is a gift from God, so anything that is from God is precious that is why you need to give love on to it. so change up its not yet too late for you. Keep the love burning unto your heart and share the love with your wife and your family. God bless you

Answer 8

Do you evel like your wife let alone love her??? Arrogant people will not be happy people once the wind get let out of their sails... Make a choice...being an as s or a husband? Pretty cut & Dry Pal...

Answer 9

Unless you want to continue being a bad husband and go down in the record bokks as a bad husband, then keep doing what you are doing.

Answer 10

If your doing something wrong in your relationship then yes you should give it up. If you love your wife very much then you should respect her and love her. Show her you love her if you want to continue being her husband.