I'm too sencere to ppl, I'm not an easy person, though every1 is saying I'm too good to be true, ppl ignore me, some even hate me.
2006-12-31 19:17:23 · 21 answers · asked by camadida 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thats sad. If you are sincere you shud also be able to stand up for yourself from time to time. It is when you dont do that that ppl start taking you for granted and simply crush your emotions. Dont be rude or unkind, but remember when you dislike something, let the person know. Or if you are not being treated properly, let it be known and do something abt it instead of sucking up to ppl.
2006-12-31 19:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, know1 is ever going to be liked by every1...even in the family. But, I know how you feel. As corny as this sounds, be urself. Doing something, or being sum1 else to get liked in the long runwont help u. First u have to stick w/ being sumthing ur not. Second, if ppl begin liking u for an act ur playing off, than they don' t like YOU, they like who u r betraying. If ppl dont like u 4 u screw em, there loss. Just remember to cherish the 1's who LOVE u 4 u.
2006-12-31 19:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by mcrystal107 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i was at high school, i felt the same as you do. part of it was just that the people i was friends with were just the people i sort of fell in with at school - and so we weren't too similar (although i am still friends with them now). so i never felt fully comfortable being myself.
but as you grow older, you will meet people more like you as well, and that is half the battle!
there are a couple of things you can do in the mean time though. the first is make sure you always do your best to treat people the way you would want to be treated - so if you want them to be nice to you, be nice to them etc. don't judge other people either. at the same time, make sure you have confidence in your own ideas and things so that you don't let anyone walk over you.
another big thing is to learn how to read people, so you know when you might be making them uncomfortable etc. learn to bite your tongue and listen to other people too. most people LOVE being listened to, and you can learn a lot about other people by doing so. it should help you learn both how to get on better with people, and endear them to you.
it took me a few years to learn how to read people, but it really made all the difference. i listen to people's stories, and can learn so much about them. and now i am basically able to get on with almost everyone i meet.
be modest. respect yourself and other people, and be willing to accept criticism when it is offered, so that you can get feedback from other people...
good luck.
2006-12-31 19:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by girl3blonde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I believe HONESTY is everyones best medicine. There are exceptions though. If you put someone down (even just a little) if they are already down: the intensity could be magnified 10X. Being sensitive + honest in perfect harmony . I don`t hate you.
2006-12-31 19:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,
Why is that so important? If you want people to like you for shallow reasons, give them money or flattery. If you want to find out what to do, find people in your own life who are loved by the other people in your life, and do what they do...
But it sounds like you have self-esteem issues.
Try this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-esteem
Read it , follow the links and if you find something you can use, do so. Ignore the rest.
One last word of advice:
Hitler was a very popular guy. And evil.
Jesus wasn't popular, his own people killed him. Hmmm...
2006-12-31 19:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by TomWilliam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 09:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? That's not a good thing to say about yourself... yet some of the things you say... seem to be a little confusing... If you are sincere, then people would like you... If people say you are too go to be true.. people should love and admire you... so what all this nonsense about people not liking you? you are not being true to yourself obviously...!!
2006-12-31 19:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by I'm Michael Jackson BAD!! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Laid back and worry free - Treat people like you want to be treated - Be confident with yourself and let people feed off that confidence - People will always either hate you or like you - Dont give them a reason to hate, be loving to even your worst enemy - You'll be fine
2006-12-31 19:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a thing called diplomacy. Watch your mouth. Try telling people the truth with euphemisms and diplomatic half-truths. People will like you much better that way.
2006-12-31 19:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They might be jealous, depends on how you are towards people. Be kind to people. Kindness kills. Only problem is you will probably get tired of everyone liking you. I have this problem. Want to swap? The irony lol
2006-12-31 19:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋