you havent touched me in two weeks, i cant wait to get back on the road to interact with real people.
2006-12-31 19:15:20 · 23 answers · asked by ROCKER CHICK 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you should have made love to him atleast once. Don't blame him a bit for telling you this. Most men who travel in their work don't necessarily cheat in marriages.
But from personal experience, If i had to come home and my wife didn't so much as touch me in two weeks, she'd have divorce papers mailed to her while i was on the road.
I wouldn't come home again except to collect my personal things and move out.
Sounds like you have neglected your husband for far to long, He's going to find what you fail to give him at home.
I was a truck driver for a time in my past, I'd call my wife everyday, had my paychecks sent directly to the house, I'd come home to spend time with her and the kids. She didn't want conversation, sex, wanted me to go spend each and everyday with her parents who lived a couple miles away.
I came home one thanksgiving having driven straight through from chicago to salt lake city, she was at her parents, I was too tired to drive anymore. I told her i was home, she said ok, she didn't bother to come get me as i couldn't take a large semi to that part of town.
Same thing happened on christmas and new years.
this went on for 4 years every year. She never ever got me a christmas present, but i always managed to get her something.
She was a self centered selfish person. I filed for divorce and got rid of her. sounds like that is what is about to happen to you.
2006-12-31 22:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....Id take it as a break up, or its time to have make-up sex . But, I would need to think of why there was a lack of sex/touch lately. Is one rejecting the other, or both spouses waiting on the other to make a move (with sex)?
Also, for the spouse to say "i cant wait to get back on the road....blablabla" is obviously a build up of some frustration, and I think the build up is longer than 2 weeks. If this is what your spouse said to you, consider some make-up sex, and definatly talk about the core issue...there is a build up of something and you both need to be honest.
2006-12-31 19:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by dianek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a woman. i left my husband because i used to touch him, kiss him and hug him several times a day, but he never respond. so i felt rejected and now im free for a good relationship. ur spouse is probably feeling like that. it's really a stupid feeling. if u dont change ur manner, i wont blame him if he interacts with others!!!
2006-12-31 20:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you some advice. You had better start giving this man some DAILY hugging and kissing and do not neglect it. He is obviously the type that needs that to keep your relationship as it should be. It is not his fault. He just needs it. If you want to stay married to him, I suggest you give him what he needs in that department. It won't hurt you to do it. You will probably even like it and I guarantee you will like the better love you get back from him in return.
Good luck.
Jon
2006-12-31 19:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id be upset. I mean maybe your spose is over-reacting. But still. Thats hurtful. Ask them what they meant - If they wont give you a straight answer, then you know that theyre just making it up. Maybe theyre trying to say something else but dont know how? I hope this helped some if any at all.
2006-12-31 19:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by zalecyn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He feels unwanted, rejected. Apologize for neglecting him, and start showing your man some attention. If he continues to feel the way he does now, that is what makes men cheat.
2006-12-31 19:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants sex and is starting to resent the fact you didn't have it in 2 weeks... this is a big sign, fix it before it gets worse.
2006-12-31 19:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by Principessa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think he was interacting with others!! Especially if he goes out of town.. could it be he is trying to make you jealous?
Needy people say some pretty silly things.
2006-12-31 19:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Elle 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is either trying to get your goat, make you jealous, or hurt your feelings. Whatever it is, I think it's pretty childish. What does he mean "get back on the road again" - salesman, truckdriver? Better keep an eye on him. He might be giving himself permission to misbehave!!!
2006-12-31 19:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by Murphyboy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'd be offended to the shithouse.
breakup mehn.
so not worth it.
to interact with "real people" is so insensistive and offensive to say to your spouse.
OR make it up to him/her.
2006-12-31 19:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by Lor. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋