i had a baby four months ago and can't seem to get the weight off yet...and just feel uncomfortable even in front of my husband
2006-12-31 17:52:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Dont feel that way.. my God when my first wife was pregnant I never thought of her as being overweight.. I never looked at her any different from the way she was before.. Just as sexy ,beautiful and delicous as ever..I don't understand women feeling this way .I look back after years and look at the videos and she was huge..but that was then and this is now...I divorced her after 23 years and married again.My wife gained about 30 pounds which she has lost allready before but when you love someone you see them the way they have always been to you and really matters not..Accept his compliment and believe him ..he is telling you the truth.. To heck with the weight and it will fall off anyway and dont worry about it.He still sees you as the same..
2006-12-31 17:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to your husband to make you feel good. Feeling good comes from you. Buy some form fitting black sexy clothes- not too expensive go to TJ MAXX or ROSS. If you dress well - no sloppy mom sweat pants- you feel well and you project confidence. Four months is not too long to keep the baby weight. Try a pilates (10 minute solution is the best) dvd it really orks, drink tons of water and eat 6 mini meals every 3 hours. Make sure the mini meals are healthy with protein, healthy fat and veggies. Be proud of yourself...you just made a baby!
2007-01-01 02:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by LO! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all im sure he doesn't care how you look he still loves you the same weight is weight you can lose it no matter what only if you try but don't lose weight for your husband lose the weight for you ok im pregnant now i weigh 119 pounds and i did weigh 108 my boyfriend is skinny and he said he wants me to have a little meat on me lol but he said he would care if i was big which i think your husband wouldn't care if you were he married you so im sure he still loves you the same your the same person he married so i don't see why you need him to compliment you i mean i know that would make you feel good but don't be embarrassed around him he's your husband even if you weighed 700 pounds im sure he'd still loved you no matter what down put yourself down just because of your weight but i hope everything has worked out for you and i hope things get better but like i said don't get upset over weight it can be lost its no big deal sweetie
2007-01-01 03:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep mourning about how you look he is not going to feel any different from what you feel about yourself. and he never usually compliment you he is not going to now. Try dressing nicely and put on a little makeup even if you ARE IN DOORS he will see that you are trying.
2007-01-02 23:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by Pebbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling him how you feel???? Blokes are not too quick picking up on this sort of stuff so you have to tell him. Do you compliment him? Just do it to see what he says.
2007-01-01 01:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one that really matters to make you feel good is yourself, beauty comes from within.
2007-01-01 02:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by malavalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't already do it, he probably never will. From personal experience, if they're not satisfied with who you are right this very moment, there will always be something that is not quite right.
2007-01-01 02:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by crank726 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shane? How did you get pregnant??? Crazy... men can conceive now? Your husband in this case was wrong for marrying you... gay people are wrong.
2007-01-01 01:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋