i am only 14 but my best friend ,who i have known for nearly six years , is getting involved with the wrong ppl! i have a drink every now and then but she is out every friday and saturday in the woods getting drunk with college guys!i dont know how to help her any more ,i am always trying to watch out for her and encourage her not to drink as much and not hang around with heavy drinkers.what should i do?
2006-12-31 17:47:08 · 12 answers · asked by hot_little_jessy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
rat on her to her mum.
2006-12-31 17:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's enjoying the attention from the older guys. Your really doing a noble thing to stick around as long as you have. Maybe you should have a heart to heart with her and tell her what COULD happen if you back out and no one is there to witness anything. I read the question to my step son (20) and my husband, and they both think she's gonna end up raped. That's what I thought too. At her age she probably has a crush on at least one of them....but It won't be by that guy. It's not going to end pretty, how to solve it, I'm not real sure. Maybe you should secretly tell her parents so they don't let her out.......I guess that would only delay it though. I'm so sorry, I'm not sure what to say at this point.
2006-12-31 18:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously thinks her behavier is cleaver,and thinks it makes her look grown up,she will get into trouble with these guys because she is drinking,this will definitely impair her judgement.
Personally, although you have been friends with her for 6 years,I think you have to tell her that if she persists in this behavier then you will have to end your friendship.
If you don't she may get you involved in some way and then you will have a problem too.
It's always hard to end a friendship, but if you tell her how you feel and she doesn't care, then she isn't a a true friend to you anyway.
2007-01-04 16:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that youre concerned and that you dont want to be involved in this activity. i know youve probably heard this over and over again but there are SO many things that could go wrong. its not worth it. try making some new friends with better heads on their shoulders.
2006-12-31 18:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you hesitating tell her you will inform her parents if she does not stop,and go through with it if she wont listen,you might lose her friendship for a while ,but at least you have taken the responsibility off your shoulders.
2006-12-31 21:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by wozza.lad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As she got a brother or sister you could speak to? or may be a teacher could help.
The only other option would be to speak to her parents, she needs help before she gets in serious trouble.
2006-12-31 18:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a responsible adult whom you can confide in because these college dudes are contributing to the deliquency of a minor and that against the law
2006-12-31 18:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HER 2 IT OR JOIN IN! IT WILL B FUN IM SURE!
god the things i got up 2 at ur age. its sounds harmles wots shes doing!
2007-01-01 13:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I leave da ***** to get gang banged, she'll learn her lesson... Sorry but i'm in a pretty foul mood today
2007-01-04 03:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by 70sBabyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her some help before it's to late, talk to a teacher, preacher, your's or her's parent(s) or even a cop. I'm a cop and you already told me so it should be easier next time. Please help her before it moves on to drugs.
2006-12-31 18:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14! but married already. dear me dont be a fake person, you need help for yourself not anyone else. try a doctor
2007-01-01 00:08:44 · answer #11 · answered by abutterfly2k2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋