I don't understand it, one day they are your friends, the next they don't answer the phone & stop hanging out with you. A certain friend is always insecure around me, to the point of not being friends with me anymore. One night we were out with this guy that she likes, and she was getting mad because she thought that the guy was flirting with me! I know where the boundaries are when it comes to friends & I would never do that to her. But I think she has also been using me to get her special privledges. Like for instance, the VIP sections of clubs, because she & her other friends know that I can get "in".
So..long story short, why do certain friends stop hanging out with you, am I doing something wrong?! Because I have another friend that does this but she's in a different group, so what the hell?! Why do girls have to be insecure to the point of not being your friend anymore?
This also happened after I just recently got my insurance agent job, could they be jealous? I don't get it!
2006-12-31 16:53:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
find some new people to hang with
2006-12-31 16:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by TBONE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, with your insurance agent job and being able to get "in" to the VIP sections of clubs, they obviously think that you've moved into a league above them.
2006-12-31 16:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's speaking to you non-end on the grounds which you have been ignoring her calls and he or she NOW realizes how lots of a jerk she's being. i say provide her yet another risk, yet basically as a results of fact she's your ultimate pal, would not provide her the nicely suited to handle you like crap. make THAT sparkling to her. if she does it lower back, overlook approximately her permananetly.
2016-10-19 07:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by wishon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i've read it sounds like you are a nice person who is being taken for granted...they may just only like to come around when it benefits them only....right now she has no use for you so she doesnt want to be bothered...but the minute she needs something you will hear from her again....thing is the problem lies within you b/c you keep allowing this to happen you already feel like they use for certain things..so why would you wanna keep ppl who are like that around??? they are users and deep down inside you know it....long as you keep letting them use you they will continue to do so...you have to be the one to stop it why keep accepting treament that you do not like???
2006-12-31 17:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by tanya m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahh, i know how you feel! its hard. maybe you should talk with her face to face. talk about what's wrong between the friendship of you and her/him. she probably might not be answering your phone calls or ignoring you because she said something wrong about her behind her back? if you didn't then that's understandable. if your friend is still wanting to have nothing to do with you for none of the reasons she's not a friend.
2006-12-31 18:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by boo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares about friends , get a real good man to be by your side and create a good family , and the rest commentary .lol What's the point ?
2006-12-31 16:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
r they hanging out w/ sum1 else now...if u knw where they live..or know where they'll be at a certain time go there and "randomly"meet them...do u have a friend that is friends w/ her that can question it?
2006-12-31 16:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by basketball_69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don`t know why girls are like that my friend did that to.they can be stuck up sometimes.are they talking to you now.
2006-12-31 17:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lea, 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
silly immature jealous people.
2006-12-31 16:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by kittykat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋