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I'm having difficulty wearing tampons.
I feel like I am the only 15 yearold girl that wears pads and I'm always extremely self-concious wearing pads.
I tried to wear a tampon once (cardboard, regular) and it was perfectly fine...until I took it out and it hurt SOO much, then I tried to put a new one in and it just wouldnt go in & it caused a lot of pain
Should I try to get a smaller size?

2006-12-31 16:29:11 · 21 answers · asked by :) 5 in Health Women's Health

21 answers

Yes..get a small size. Remember to tilt yourself when u take it out. I'd recommend changing it as much as you use the restroom.

When you put one in, put one foot onto the toilet and entry it from that way. You can take it out the same way just be careful of dripping? And...relax...you tighten up when your nervous. Everything will be ok. And congratulations!

2006-12-31 16:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by * Kittles * 3 · 1 0

You aren't alone. Lots of girls have trouble using tampons.

Try using the Junior/Light size, or a different brand, and see if that makes any difference. Sometimes, the plastic applicators are easier for young girls. Be sure, when you put it in, that you insert the applicator all the way BEFORE pushing the plunger thingy farther in. Any tampon will hurt coming out if it is still kind of dry, so try not to take them out too often - but also be careful not to leave them in too long. About 4 hours is usually ok.

Not sure how to explain this without being gross, but you could try soaking the tailstring in a cup of water for several minutes (so the rest of it the tampon will absorb more water and soften) if it is too dry to come out comfortably. (Please note that you should NOT wet it BEFORE you put it in.) Also, it will go in and out easier if you aren't full of poop, so try to get rid of that first, if possible. Be sure to follow the directions included with the tampons, too, because different brands are inserted differently, and one position might work better for you than others.

If you CAN'T use tampons comfortably, don't worry - just use thin maxi-pads, change them frequently, and try again some other time. Or, use tampons for the first few (heavy) days, and pads for the lighter ones. You aren't alone.

Good luck!
:)

2007-01-01 00:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by gelfling 7 · 0 0

Sit or stand in a comfortable position. Some women prefer to place one leg on the toilet seat or tub, while others prefer to squat down. After you find a position that is most comfortable for you, hold the tampon with the fingers that you write with. Hold the middle of the tampon, at the spot where the smaller, inner tube inserts into the larger, outer tube. Make sure the string is visible and pointing away from your body.


With your other hand, open the labia (the folds of skin around the vaginal opening) and position the tampon in the vaginal opening.


Gently push the tampon into the opening, aiming for the small of your back. Stop when your fingers touch your body and the applicator, or outer tube, is completely inside the vagina.


Once the applicator or outer tube is inside of you, use your index finger to push the inner tube (the tube where the removal string is connected) through the outer tube.


Once the inner tube is all the way in, use your thumb and middle finger to remove the applicator or outer tube. Make sure that the string hangs outside of the vaginal opening. Later, when you are ready to remove the tampon, hold the string and gently pull it downward until the entire tampon is out.
If the tampon is inserted correctly, you should not feel it. If you feel uncomfortable in any way, you may have inserted the tampon incorrectly or the tampon may not be placed far enough into the vagina. If this happens, just remove the tampon and start again with a new tampon. Remember that practice makes perfect. If you don't get it on the first try, your second try will most likely be successful. Instead of getting frustrated and giving up, relax and try again!

What if I still don't succeed?
If you don't succeed after several times, see your health care provider. It may be that you were born with a very small opening in your hymen and you can't insert tampons. This is true in only about 2% of teens, but it could be a problem.
A mirror is often helpful so that you can see where your vaginal opening is. Sometimes, even using a small amount of vaginal lubricant (K-Y Jelly) on the end of the tampon will help the first one glide in.

What is TSS?
You've probably heard of this disease before, and how it may be connected to tampon use. TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome) is an infection that is very rare, but potentially dangerous. TSS can affect anyone, male or female. However, it occurs most frequently in young women who wear tampons. You will probably never get TSS, but it's good to know what the symptoms are and how to avoid putting yourself at risk.
You've probably heard of this disease before, and how it may be connected to tampon use. TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome) is an infection that is very rare, but potentially dangerous. TSS can affect anyone, male or female. However, it occurs most frequently in young women who wear tampons. You will probably never get TSS, but it's good to know what the symptoms are and how to avoid putting yourself at risk.
Tampons themselves do not cause TSS. TSS is caused by bacteria called Staphylococcus aureus. When a tampon is left inside your vagina for too long, it creates a perfect environment for different types of bacteria, including Staphylococcus aureus, to grow. To avoid developing TSS, follow these guidelines when using tampons:
Change your tampons at least every 4-8 hours or more often if necessary.
Choose the correct tampon absorbency. Use smaller sized tampons when your flow is lighter. TSS occurs more often when super-absorbent tampons are used. Don't use these unless your menstrual flow is particularly heavy.
Alternate between pad and tampon use. You might want to use pads at night, and tampons in the daytime.
Wash your hands before inserting or taking out your tampon.
Don't use tampons to absorb anything other than your menstrual flow. Only insert a tampon once menstrual blood is present.
If you experience the following symptoms while wearing a tampon, remove the tampon, and contact your health care provider immediately! These symptoms may seem similar to the flu. If they occur while you are menstruating and wearing a tampon, they may signal TSS. Otherwise, it might mean that you have another infection. It is recommended that you see your health care provider regardless. Symptoms of TSS include:
Sudden high fever
A sunburn-like rash
Diarrhea
Dizziness, fainting, or lightheadedness
Vomiting

2007-01-01 20:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0 0

hey your not the only one wearing pads. just think about it this way pads are alot healthy and you can't get toxic shock syndrome like with a tampon. if you are too uncomfortable with the tampons try a thinner full coverage pad they work for me. you can get tampons made my playtex in slims they are recommended for teens. buy some ky jelly or have your mom do it. you can use this to lubricate the outside of the tampon before putting it in. If your not bleeding alot a tampon can get stuck. Im married and about to turn 21 and have been sexually active since 16 and tampons always get stuck in me at the end of my period. if that is the case for you then tampons aren't neccessary if your not bleeding alot. the vagina walls no matter if your a virgin or not will stretch out alot if they are lubricated so try the jelly see if it works. good luck.

2007-01-01 01:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

you could try getting a smaller size. its ok to feel self concious when you feel like your the only one doing something. but ask yourself, does it really matter if you wear a pad or tampon? i would only start worrying when you go swimming. another thing is you might just want to get used to them. i read somewhere that it hurts a little until you have sex. until then i would just use them something like once a week. you should try all sizes and types, not only cardboard. good luck.

2007-01-01 00:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by bobisawsum 1 · 0 0

Are you a virgin? This might be why. Keep trying and eventually it will not hurt. Also make sure you place it in all the way....otherwise it will hurt like a *****.

And no I use pads (im turning17) but hopefully starting the menstrual cup. Tampons and i just don't work for the first few heavy flow days. Also tampons can increase cramping...


Good Luck!

2007-01-01 05:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You might be allergic, and your are swelled inside. The pain would be enough for me not to wear tampons anymore. The doctor told me years ago not to wear tampons until I was having sex, to use pads only. That is what I did and I have never had a problem. If this continues, you really need to have a check up.

2007-01-01 00:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by m c 5 · 0 0

a, youre not the only 15 year old girl who wears a pad. im 17 and i just started wearing tamopns regularly. for me, the cardboard ones suck. try playtex gently glide. use light, if you are, or regular but i wouldnt go up any higher than that. but usually your first time taking it out hurt. you just need to relax and it'll become much more easy. when you pull it out, just relax and do it slowly. good luck.

2007-01-01 00:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by So in love. 2 · 0 0

I'm 15 too and have always worn pads. I tried a tampon once and it didn't work too well. I don't have any advice but to just let you know that you're not the only one.

2007-01-01 05:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by 12345 5 · 0 0

no worries... i know lots of girls much older than you who still use pads.
but i'd suggest using tampons with a plastic applicator (i like playtex gentle glide and tampax compak)... they are sooo much easier to insert! and maybe you should try a smaller size, also. try tampax compak junior absorbancy or playtex slimfits regular absorbancy.
and they shouldn't hurt coming out unless they are dry... leave it in for 4-8 hours or until you can feel the blood start to leak out (it's best to wear a pantyliner with tampons for this reason).

2007-01-01 00:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by emily.grace 3 · 1 0

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