my friend told her i lie that i like her crush and that we were really close friends helpme!!
2006-12-31 14:11:04 · 28 answers · asked by chococat_cutie12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would talk it over with her. If she is your TRUE friend, she will believe you! You might want to tell her who you really have a crush on!
Happy New Year!!!!!
2006-12-31 14:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by Wori67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to like whomever you want to. It doesn't matter whether or not your friend likes him too. Sounds to me like you all are either very young, or very immature. Your friend does not have dibs on the guys she decides on. Sounds to me like she is just a little worried that you would have a better chance of him liking you than her, and she's jealous of that.
Just tell her that your friendship should be about friends and the two of you. It should not have anything to do with other people. Friends should not care who has a crush on who. They should just be there for eachother. Tell her you like her better than any boy you know, and that your friendship is for the 2 of you only. Don't defend yourself about the boy. It could just start a fight.
2006-12-31 22:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by sheristeele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her up close and in her face that you're not into her crush.. and if she doesn't believe you then just ask her why she doesn't trust that you don't like him.. If you like someone else then tell her who you like and that you don't like her crush.. try not to make a big deal over it, try and change the conversation, because its not a huge deal if you don't like him..
Hope that helps just talk to her and tell her the truth and if she doesn't accept the truth then just leave it at that...
Blessings! Also ask God to help her believe you..
Have a great new years eve!
2006-12-31 22:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to face a reality that many people will like him at the same time, but only few will act on it. There really is no harm if you did like him, its acting on it that makes the difference. She sounds overbearing and better get a grip or any relationship she does have with him (or plans to have w/him) will crumble because of this behavior.
2006-12-31 22:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me too! I almost lost my best friend over it. This other friend was jealous and tried to make her mad at me. I stopped it by telling my best friend that I actually had a crush on someone else, and I would never allow myself to like her crush.
2006-12-31 22:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tanyaqt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight in her face that you don't like her crush and if she refuses to listen..then stop talking to her for sometime and when she talks to you, just feign ignorance so as to let her know you're tired of her accusing you for something you didn't do. I know its tough facing a situation when someone refuses to believe the truth.
2006-12-31 22:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Clemence 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth and remain steadfast in it. If you're hanging out with her crush a whole lot and its making her uncomfortable, you might want to back off a little bit.
Depending on how old she is, she should be secure enough in herself and in her crushes to believe you if you tell her that you don't want him.
-Bart
2006-12-31 22:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Bartleby the Scrivener 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't care and that she can have him. If she doesn't believe you, just be nice to her or something. It's just a small fight, it will pass eventually. I've gotten into tons of fights with my friends, not really about big stuff, and I'm still friends with all of them.
2007-01-03 20:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by ~Geeks Will Rule The World~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, u have the rights to like her crush. i mean, it's not like they have a relationship or something, he's free game, anyone can LIKE him. i mean, so what if u like him? if ur friend wants to give u permission about who u can like and who u can't then i say... she shouldn't even be ur friend.
2nd of all, if u've been telling her that u don't like her and she doesn't believe u, then thats her problem, u don't have to worry about it. i mean, if ur best friend doesn't trust in what u say and accuses u then again, she shouldn't even be ur friend.
Good luck!
2006-12-31 22:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if you do? (Even tho ya don't) That doesn't mean that you're gonna go for him. Tell her to grow up, that if you did like him you would admit it to her. I take it that this is not her boyfriend? She must be jealous of you or insecure of your friendship. Or she is just selfish and doesn't give a crap about you.
2006-12-31 22:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋