I've met too many guys that will say body figure is most important, complement my figure, then constantly try feeding extra fatty foods and say "you can gain 5-10lbs"... what is that? (especially when they turn around and hit on the super skinny girl that just walked by)
2006-12-31 14:03:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Trying to fatten you up so that he thinks that way other guys will not want you.......been there.
2006-12-31 14:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are living vicariously through the girl? Some guys are afraid of gaining weight, so they want to fatten their girl up just in case they get fat. As to the other skinny girl, I do not have a clue? It certainly holds no appeal for me.
2006-12-31 14:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Epinions Reviewer. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have noticed in this 48 years is that men go to skinny women for a variety of reasons. It could be they don't have the right tool for bigger women, or that big women are costly or should I say high maintenance. You fatten a cow to keep remember that
2006-12-31 14:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by wrichard1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me this is not to hard to answer. Most Guys do not like fat girls, or really skinny ones. Most like a kind of medium size. Its also easier to add 5-10 punds than lose 20.
2006-12-31 14:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by d75train 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From an evoluationary perspective. Maybe because 'psychologically' the man is looking to create a mate who is able to bear children (child bearing hips) or who might have the potential to become a potential mate. And males will try to keep their mating potential open (by looking at other potential mates).
2006-12-31 17:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and im 16 6-2 170 and im toned like slender. they honestly don't care, the muscles might be just ONE THING attractive to the girl. but remember thats just one. not every girl has big boobs, even some very attractive ones. no ones perfect. be confident
2016-03-29 02:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly don't know, they say size doesn't matter, but then they always make a rude comment to a large girl who walks by. Happy New Years!
2006-12-31 15:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that this guy is "calorie concious". You see that peice of pizza and think 'That's going to my thighs etc.' but he sees yummy, yummy goodness and wants to share it with,of all people, you! Aw, isn't he sweet. Furthure more, if he is with you and truely cares for you then trust me, you really CAN gain 5-10 pounds.
2006-12-31 16:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by Leah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think it's that they're tyring to fatten you up to make you undesirable to other men. here's the solution - keep your logical body weight for you and don't let men influence you one way other another. that's what I do.
2006-12-31 14:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by the Bruja is back 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because when they get married, women (and men) put on weight. By starting off with someone skinny, you end up with someone of normal weight.
Just logic I suppose.
2006-12-31 14:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Terracinese 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋