I always vowed that i would never date anyone out of my race. I was always attracted to blonde hair and blue eyes. But I met this girl who we're friends now and more and more I can't stop thinking about her. I find her the most beautiful woman in the world. But she's black. I used to be a racist but with me attracted to her I feel myself changing. I want to know more about her, her culture (she's actually from Africa). I don't consider myself racist anymore because I realize what an @ss I've been with my thoughts and opinions on other races. Is this love that's changing me or what? Now I'm looking at other black women online just to see what she looks like with her clothes off. Is that normal?
2006-12-31 14:03:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Totally.lol I;m so happy to hear this.I've been following your story,and for 2007,I wish all your dreams come true.
Happy New Year.
2006-12-31 14:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it is love that's changing you. You can't help liking a person no matter what race they belong to. Looking at other black women online to see what SHE looks like I think is normal I guess but not a very good idea because she might be different underneath.
2006-12-31 22:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by babyapplepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its totally normal, take me for instance, i hated gays lesbians and bisexuals i mean i hated them for years, until one day i caught my friend looking at my breast and staring at me, and i had never really knew it but i feel in love with him, although im a transsexual and a male 2 female, people may see the relationship as strait but im gay, i guess you can say i was a closet gay for a long time. most of the time if you hate gays or lesbians that usually means you are one and dont want to admit it. as for you being racist it sounds like you love the girl alot but arnt racist, just sound like you love blacks just as much as you do your own race but didn't want to admit it, but its totally natural, *hugs*
2006-12-31 22:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Crystal C ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably falling in love with her in order to make you realize that you were wrong for being racist.
2007-01-02 02:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds normal to me...congratulations on freeing yourself from the confines of racism.
2006-12-31 22:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes-it's ok. Skin color doesn't matter. Wanting to know what she looks like naked is also ok. Were basically the same,just diffrent colors. Do what feels right.
2006-12-31 22:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal and hot!
2007-01-01 06:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you finally found someone who is just like you, a human being, who just happens to be of a different color skin
2006-12-31 22:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by de bossy one 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds wonderful! go with it. racism is a horrible thing, as is all stereotyping, and if this woman is opening your mind to new things, then that is brilliant!
2006-12-31 22:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by girl3blonde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yey!!! congrats for not being stuck up, and racists anymore... u r finally becoming mature...
2006-12-31 23:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋