I love him but he is always doing this, he says he has never had sex with anyone but me in the years we have been together. But we are never intimate anymore he cant keep it up does that mean he is cheating?
2006-12-31 13:59:01 · 10 answers · asked by Crampy Grampy 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you guys are great, just want to ad he can get it up but when we get going it goes away. I have taken his computer then it gets physical he goes nuts if i take his computer. I smashed one on the chest 2 years ago.
2006-12-31 14:09:20 · update #1
Tell him, you love him..and tell him to stop having internet affairs. If he still persists...pack your luggage and move to somewhere else and find a new guy.,
2006-12-31 22:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the routine mode on.
I guess you done it all and there is nothing new and exciting anymore.
So he is looking elsewhere.
How can he cheat on line:theses men don't even exist for real.
But maybe arouse him
My advice:spice it up a little in the bedroom.
Surprise him:Get a Dildo.other toys:anything
Get rid of the boredom
It might be your relationship is going downhill.
Do you two find it hard to talk about what you want or need?
Open up and get the life back in it:or else I think that this is the beginning of the end.
A happy new year Rob.xxxl
2006-12-31 14:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you two have hit a stage in your relationship where your partner is extremely content but also extremely bored. See if you can check out the websites he's been visiting to see what he's craving. Also, if your partner is in his forties or above, he may be having symptoms of ED (erectile dysfunction), which is extremely easy to treat. If the two of you aren't close enough to where you can bring this subject up, then your relationship has problems that are deeper than mere boredom or erectile dysfunction.
2006-12-31 14:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could spice things up a bit...bringing toys into the realionship or fantasy ..like dress up..i would suggest a weekend just the two of you to the nearest town and leave the computer at home..do something together that you have not done in years
2006-12-31 16:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe your not satisfying him the way he wants you to, so hes looking for it else where? Who knows? I find it extremely rude of him to do though, but maybe you need to ask him if there's something your not doing right. Or maybe you could spice things up a bit cause maybe hes bored..im not saying YOUR boring, its just that type of things happen in relationships..anyway hope that helps? lol
2006-12-31 14:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by BlondBoy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threaten to throw out his computer. Then do it!
Have him make an appointment with a doctor for a complete physical. His impotenence might be physical or mental. Cialis could help him. He might not be PHYSICALLY cheating but excessive masturbation will lower his libido with you.
2006-12-31 14:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's using the internet to fullfill his sexual pleasures. Sit him down and ask him about what he wants. Treat him to a full night of his pleasure coming first (no pun intended). His sexual needs have just changed.
2007-01-01 23:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has lost faith in the idea of you as a lover and confidante.
Rebuild your relationship of trust by communicating how his expressions of intimacy makes you feel and how important boundaries are to you in making you feel secure and validated as a life partner.
2006-12-31 14:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
His Internet use is clearly affecting your relationship in a negative way. Time to tell him to take himself off-line, or else ...
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2006-12-31 14:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him that it bothers you
2006-12-31 14:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by KTbaybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋