I have been going back and forth with my ex for the past three months. He acts like he wants to be with me and then he doesn't. coming around when it is convenient for him. Answering my calls when he wants. I am so tired of his bullshit. It is a new year and I just want to be done with his az. I called him and TM him and got no reply tonight. It is emotionally draining and I know I will hear from him in the next two weeks. Should I change my phone number, I was planning to change it anyway b/c I just moved to a new city and I wanted a local number. I just kind of feel that it would be good change b/c he cannot call when he feels like it and when it is convenient for him. If he wants to really contact me he still can through email but I was just wondering if this would be to drastic. I just do not want to hear that BS that he talks anymore. Its time to move on!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-31 13:56:14 · 23 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're answering your own question, and I think it's a good answer. It is not too drastic. Listen to your gut feeling. That is a lesson I learned after similar BS in a relationship that lasted nearly 5 years. If you will just allow yourself to get away from him completely for a few weeks, you will have time to reflect on the quality of your relationship with him and your thoughts will start to clear up. All those grey areas wont seem so grey anymore. The answers to all your doubts will come to you loud and clear.
2006-12-31 14:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you change your number, remeber to use *67 when you call him or he is going to be able to get the number back, an answer to your questions is it is totally up to you, if you feel you are really done and if he does contact you, you will not go running then yes change your number, if you are not sure, then do not due the fact you can only change your number so many times with some companies before they will not allow it or you have to pay to do it again
2006-12-31 14:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by sinful777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...I would definately recommend it...I just did the same thing myself with a troubling ex....and girl let me tell you what a relief it is. And if you do change your number under no circumstances should you ever let it get to him. If you have mutual friends make sure they dont give it to him or dont let them have it. And if you HAVE to call him...call him anonymous *67...but I wouldnt even do that. This will alleviate so much stress in your life like you dont even know. If it hasnt worked out yet its not going to you are wasting your time and energy. GET SOME NEW DIGITS AND SOME NEW HOTTIES
2006-12-31 14:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by LUCKY TOLLY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should decide if he's worth the effort you seem to be putting in on him. I think that if he is constantly calling or you feel you are too weak to say no, then yes, change your number and stop all contact until you are strong enough to melt when he snaps.
If it's you who are doing the calling, then you just need to decide to stop or keep being rejected.
2006-12-31 14:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Carol B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is time to move on - Change your number, email him that you want nothing to do with him any longer and say you are going to start seeing someone else. Hopefully he'll get the hint
2006-12-31 13:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a great way to start out the new year! Just don't change it unless you're sure that YOU won't call HIM! Then it would be a total waste of time. You are right for wanting to change this pattern. Good for you!
2006-12-31 13:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by mizchulita 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it should not have been funny in the first place. Why did you agree to this. If it was because you were drinking - you best give away the grog. Your husband is just as bad if he went along with this prank on someones feelings. Change your number - for your neighbours benefit.
2016-03-14 00:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once in a relationship like this. I felt so piss, but happy when he calls. I started to upset myself and really became his play toy. I finally gotten the Brain to move on.And i think you should too. Once he see you move on he's going to want you so bad, because he no longer have you under his control. Change everything. start a new life, change your look.If you any happy email anytime time.MI_Me00@yahoo.com
2006-12-31 14:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change your number. He's no good for you.
2006-12-31 14:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by Bengal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I say change the number if really in your mind you dont want anything to do with your ex! But lets say that something happens and you want to get in contact with him then what do you do?
2006-12-31 13:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by AD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋