Ok, so my boyfriend is really nice, sweet and SO different from anyone I've ever gone out with. Here's the thing (and its kind of embarassing to share with complete strangers but...) he wants to finger me. And im ok with that, but i just dont want it to hurt, because I've never had anything there before. my "cherry isn't popped" so, what should I do? try to break it myself or let him do it?
2006-12-31 13:21:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you have any concerns, why not discuss it with him.
Maybe you can figure out what best to do for you. :)
2006-12-31 14:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No mat-her how you do it it will hurt.But why do it whit fingers when the real thing feels a lot better, By the sounds of both of you he doesn't have much experience. So have fun but do it the natural way. If you are afraid of getting pregnant and are not on the pill , use a condom, or don't do it around the end of your period four or five days after it ended . Good Luck.And Happy sexy New Year
2006-12-31 21:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well is hes really the sweet guy you know, he would understand if you dont want to be fingered by him and that it would put u in pain, that you should wait until you're entirely ready. Beleive me a guy would love to do that but he would probably be uncomfertable doing it if you are.
i hope i helped
good luck
2006-12-31 21:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay calm, relax and enjoy! If he's gentle, great, if not, teach him how to be. You've got to let him know whay you like..don't be afraid to tell him or guide him. Believe me, the sensation you'll experience will let you open up to being "popped". Have fun!
2006-12-31 22:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by silhouet57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me being fingered is not going to "pop your cherry" and from experience from when i was younger it didnt hurt at all.
2006-12-31 21:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to Google the term "clitoris". There is hardly any pleasure to be gained if he hasn't found that yet, and not much to be gained if he has.
Basically.....nothing needs to enter your vagina and your cherry doesn't need to be popped to enjoy eachother physically.
Please wait on the cherry.
2006-12-31 21:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it wont hurt. make sure his fingernails are trimmed and make sure you are ready emotionally to start being sexual with someone. you can always try it yourself, no harm in that, then the fear wont be there when you are trying to share this with him
2006-12-31 21:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by hallie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to be gentle. It won't hurt.
2006-12-31 21:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as ur ok with it, let him.
2006-12-31 21:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by Julie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should help!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=As6KRcEwrTAzFrmaBtA0oADsy6IX?qid=1006040210832&show=7#profile-info-AA11160101
2006-12-31 22:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋