First off you are the other half. It's your life and heart. If you don't like it than you do have a right to ask him to stop. I hate flirting, yet I realise we all do it unconsciously. But I am conscious of where I am and with whom. I will not insult my gf by unconsciously flirting with another woman. I ask that she would do the same. It may be natural but it doesn't make it right. It just makes us feel less loved or less important, and no one likes to feel that way. Ask him if he could save his flirting for just you and you will promise to do the same.
2007-01-04 01:38:50
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answered by NoAnswers 2
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Well How do you feel about your husband? Do you trust him? If he was flirting would that bother you? Try talking to him and see what he has to say.. He may be doing it with out even realizing that its flirting.. (men can do this) If he is and you talk to him then maybe he will stop seeming as he knows its hurting you. I can say with my husband when something he is doing is hurting me he will stop and I do the same for him... That's one reason we don't go to bars any more just doesn't seem to be a good place to keep a healthy marriage.
2006-12-31 12:54:18
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answered by mrs.mom 4
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Maybe you should find out what they mean by flirting. Find out exactly what he's doing. Theres a big difference between telling a lady that she looks nice today and getting phone numbers.
Also, you also want to find out the intent behind the flirting. Sometimes it feels good to know that you can still pull the ladies if you wanted to, but if his intent is to actually follow through and hook up with these ladies then there might be a problem.
2006-12-31 12:50:41
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answered by mine2006aug 3
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Nothing! You cannot live his life or control his body or behavior. When people drink they turn into different people. There is men and women that go to bars to pick up one night stands without even thinking of VD or AIDS. Maybe your husband is an alcoholic, maybe he is a player. I think deep inside you know the answer and the decision is only yours when you are ready. If you love your husband that much and he only drinks sporadicly then next time go to the bar with him (be his companion).
2006-12-31 12:55:16
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answered by Abby 4
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first of all happy new year! and you'r obviously merry cause he goes out drining!! mate don't take the sh*t,just tell him you've got a few friends online.... flirtings not a bad thing, the question is ...does it go any futher....xx
2006-12-31 13:00:23
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answered by tee 2
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right here is my moto we all flirt a little even if we shy see a cute guy or girl and have a llittle look in a sense you know what i mean its not unnatural...it depends to what level he is flirting and if its bothering hun you dont and wont keep a marriage bottling up your feelings tell him how you feel she what he says.....even then dont matter at least he knows you know and that will be on his mind everytime he flirts if he loves you he will stop....but this is a man we are talking about here...there is innocent flirting and harmful flirting but at the end of the day flirting is what leads to more......you need to get your man back around your fingers.... dont sit in on pc like a good wife feeling down that is if you do that is assumption dont go with him out as then there no trust and you might aswell sign divorce papers and not waste your years......... go out start enjoying yourself make him wonder.....not to much though or you will drift....enough to make him wonder get that curiosty back in play then spice things up in the bedroom he will wonder what the hell has got into you all the men who agree sex is something that needs to be explored not made routine not saying become a video a ho at home but you want you man hold on to him love....its not easy to say this but i have learnt its true treat them mean keep em keen its true as i have heard so many story and please dont be offended by this of wifes who get into that routine wife roll and forget the lust and the fun of how and why they got together.....TO COMFORTABLE yes you marry for love but why do men and women splitt ROUTINE BORDOM AND NORMALLY A BIT OF SOMETHING THAT CAME ALONG AND HE OR SHE WAS FUN try to work at things if he flirting he bored at home slighty and you two need work on that or he just simple one of those stupid men ONLY you can decided that good luck
2006-12-31 15:57:13
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answered by MissTee 2
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before you jump to any conclusions, confront him about it because you cant always believe everthing you hear. and if he says no, like you know he will, then 'happen' to be in the same place hes in one night that he goes off drinking. and if you see him flirting, leave. and when he comes home 'jokingly' ask him if he was out flirting and when he denys it, tell him that you were at that place and saw him flirt and give him details. good luckk.
2006-12-31 12:50:44
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answered by So in love. 2
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Drop it. People are always trying to cause trouble. Maybe they are jealous that you and your husband have a trusting relationship and you can let him go out by himself. Tell your husband what they are saying and talk about it. Besides he comes home to you. My husband is 66 years old and he still looks, like he says "I`m old not dead".
2006-12-31 12:53:36
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answered by mammafran77 3
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flirting is harmless and a natural reaction in all humans male or female u prob do it to without noticing it is nice to get a bit of attention it is good for our esteem as long as he is coming home to you don't worry. don't listen to other people as some times they just can't see people happy and like to meddle in others life's as their's are boring. hope this helps
2007-01-03 03:43:56
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answered by debbie b 2
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Do what Pauline did to Arfur and rattle him across the head with a frying pan. How dare he.
2007-01-02 05:26:19
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answered by . 7
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