I have been going through a divorce and having problems with my girl friend(see previous questions) Now i get a call from my soon to be Ex wife that she appoligises for everything and wants to work it out . Im in such a bad place right now with my girlfriend cheating on me and now my Soon to be exwife wanting me back i dont know who to be with or try to be with
2006-12-31 12:42:32 · 5 answers · asked by Chris m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with several of the others. This is not a time to be making decisions about either women so don't let them pressure you into making one. Do sit back awhile and think through everything that you have been through with both of them.
Is your girlfriend willing to stop her cheating relationship and work on regaining your trust? Were there other problems in the relationship that makes it no longer worth your while to try to work it out with her?
Is your wife willing to work on the issues that broke you apart or have you herd these apologies before and know that they are empty ones? Are you willing to work them out or are you tired of the fighting?
The answers to these questions will help you to make a good decision for yourself. One that you will be able to look back and have very few or no regrets making.
2006-12-31 13:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by brighterdayscounseling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would try first to take some time and gather your self. You seem so lost now and jumping from one to the other is not going to help anyone. I would not for any reason take back the x girlfriend.. How ever I would talk to your wife and let her no you need some time and let her no that neither of you will be seeing any one else why you are making up your mind. If she wants you back and is sorry then she shouldn't have a problem with this. But I would first put your self together and then with a clear mind and with out another girl in the way talk to your wife...
wish you all the best.
2006-12-31 20:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your divorce and other issues. This is the best answer I can give you with the information you've given me. Right now, I think it'd be best for you to be by yourself. You need to heal your heart. Divorce is one of the hardest things to go through. I suggest going through some counseling as well. Right now it wouldn't do you any good to be with any woman.
2006-12-31 20:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by daughtofthking 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U have got to be the dumbest guy alive, so sorry hehe ;) Ummm ok u have a girlfriend who cheats nada ain't going to work kick her to the curb....Your X, please let the past stay there. It never works out. You divorced just let it be just that. Get healthy and find a meaningful relationship, true love.
2006-12-31 20:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by cat l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be with the one that you will have pay the child suport to ts easier to live with her then the cheating gf.
2006-12-31 20:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋